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Every other Wednesday at noon, local experts from washingtonpost.com share their best bets for arts and entertainment options for kids and their families. Our group specializes in local dining, museum, sports and recreations, day trips, children's theaters and the special events that keep life in metropolitan Washington interesting.

We're happy to answer questions, but we need to hear from you too. Tell us about your favorite public swimming pool, a movie that wowed your family, a toy shop with a "do touch" policy, or a restaurant where pizza is as welcome on the floor as it is on the plate. This is an hour for kids of all ages: So if you have teenagers who need a night out without you -- or vice versa -- ask away. Together we can fill our calendars with memorable activities.

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The Kids' Table: Hi, everyone . . . thanks for joining us at the Kids' Table, where it is perfectly permissible to talk with your mouth full! And we have lots to talk about before clearing the table, pushing our chairs back and rushing outside to play in the sun (love! all the puffy white clouds taking over the blue sky). This day has fair written all over it, and we're in fair territory. I'm thinking of "judging" West Virginia's myself. You could also visit Farmer McGregor (but call first) and be picky. What are your plans? I (Vicki) will be your host -- the one with the paper towels in case there are spills. Our extremely neat group at the Kids' Table today: Maura, Kate, Anne, Lynette, and Matt.

Silver Spring, Md.: My 3-year-old and 5-year-old sons are constantly asking me to take them fishing. I don't really want to invest in fishing gear until we at least try this one time. (The last time I fished, I was probably about 5 years old.) So, any suggestions on where we could (1) rent fishing gear appropriate for kids at a reasonable price for a day or a weekend, and (2) suggestions on places to go fishing that might be appropriate for two very young and eager fishermen (e.g., where we might be able to fish safely from a dock)? Thanks -- I really appreciate your column!

The Kids' Table: Hi Silver Spring. Unfortunately I (Lynette) haven't been able to track down anyone who rents fishing gear, but there are other solutions. There's always the do-it-yourself track – a stick, some dental floss and a safety pin for a hook. Then you can spend a happy afternoon in a nearby grassy field catching crickets for bait (or digging in the garden for earthworms, if you're not too squeamish). I'm sure your sons would love it. Our host for this chat, Mother Vicki, doesn't consider this suggestion very practical, though (and, come to think of it, neither did my mother back in the day), so you might also look for cheap fishing gear at a local pawn shop or the used sporting goods chain Play It Again Sports, which has stores throughout the area.

As for places to go, there are plenty. The Washington Post's John Kelly recommends the fishing by the lighthouse along the Potomac at Fort Washington Park. If you'd like to head a little farther out of town, you can also try Gunpowder Falls State Park or Catoctin Mountain Park. All three of those locations (and there are plenty more) should be within an hour's drive from Silver Spring, especially on a weekend.

Another option, if you don't mind heading into Virginia, is the Learn to Fish for Catfish workshop being held at Fountainhead Regional Park on August 17.

Washington, D.C.: When the weather is too hot to do much of anything outdoors, but I have a 12-year-old and a 14-year-old who need lots of exercise ( but going to a crowded pool doesn't do it for them) what would you suggest? We spend hours thinking about what to do and then before we know it the day slips away.

Lisa

The Kids' Table: Hi, Lisa, Anne here. It sounds like you need some no-planning-required exercise, something right outside your front door. The easiest thing to do is put on a pair of sneakers and go for a walk around the neighborhood. And on those awful code-red days, go in the early morning, (relatively) cooler part of the day, and be sure to drink up on the water. Are there off-peak times when swimming pools aren't as crowded? You could also get some chill exercise at an ice-skating rink. Call to check their summer hours -- Fort Dupont's rink is open to the public 2:30-4:30 on the weekends.

Washington, DC: We went with our almost-2-year-old to the aquarium in the basement of the Commerce Dept on Sunday and had a fine time for an hour on a beastly hot day, but I was really surprised at how low-budget and dank the place was. This is the best the U.S. can do for a so-called "national" aquarium? Indeed, I agree with your profile that it has a pet-store atmosphere. Are there any plans to upgrade it?

The Kids' Table: Well, Washington, I agree Washington's National Aquarium can be pretty depressing, but it's what we've got and there's no sea of change on the horizon. Don't forget the National Aquarium in Baltimore. With this far glitzier institution up the road, I don't think Washington is going to try and compete.

Washington, D.C.: Hi! Can you give me some insight about the Maryland Science Center? I have two girls, 6 and 3, who love all kinds of outings, but we usually try to avoid crowded venues -- too much stress for me and not as much fun for the girls. What is the chaos factor like? When is the best time to go? Thanks!

The Kids' Table: Hi Washington. The chaos factor can run high at the Maryland Science Center, especially on weekends. With lots of hands-on activities, it's a popular place. I say if you can make it during the week, it might be worth the trip -- and the money ($9 for kids, $13 for adults, I think). If you're willing to make a day of it, check out other Baltimore attractions for your crew, like the National Aquarium, B&O Railroad Museum and Port Discovery. -- Maura

Arlington, Va.: Thanks for sustaining a wonderful site.

Do you know of any resort type places within driving distance that are geared towards the family? I am thinking something like the Tyler Place in Vermont that just got a review in the New York Times last Sunday. Thanks!

The Kids' Table: From our online travel editor Ben: There are several such places in the mid-Atlantic, here are a few to consider: Wintergreen resort (along the Blue Ridge less than three hours from Washington) is notoriously family-friendly and, according to its advertising, is offering some late-summer special deals. In the Laurel Highlands area of Pennsylvania (less than four hours from D.C.), the ski resorts of Seven Springs and Hidden Valley both have a wide range of recreational facilities amid beautiful surroundings. Be sure and ask any specific questions you may have when you're booking so you don't face any unwanted surprises when you go.

Arlington, Va.: Having been to a number of truly terrific children's museums around the country (including one in Indianapolis), I have to say I found D.C.'s to be old, shabby, and sorely lacking in many ways. Is there any effort under way to raise money to upgrade or rebuild it?

The Kids' Table: Arlington, I'm sure they'd appreciate a donation, but as for major renovations, I don't know of any planned at this point. Like at most museums these days, funds are limited. I think the Capital Children's Museum does try and puts on some really thoughtful shows, like "Japan Through the Eyes of a Child" and its recent show of artwork by children in Afghanistan. In the meantime, there are other kid-centric exhibits at museums like American History, Natural History, Air and Space, even the Holocaust Museum. But remember the CCM is competing with Washington's bigger-name museums for your attention -- and money. Not always an easy task. And I'm guessing the museum in Indianapolis -- fine city that it is -- doesn't have such issues. -- Maura

Harrisburg, Pa.: I am considering going to the Spy Museum? Have you seen it, and do you have recommendations on whether it is worth seeing? Also, do you know if it is crowded and, if so, if there are good and bad times to see it to avoid the crowds?

The Kids' Table: Hi Harrisburg. I (Maura) think the International Spy Museum is definitely worth a visit. The material may rise above the heads of the youngest set, but school age kids should really enjoy it. It's pretty flashy and there are lots of hands-on activities. As for when to go, avoid weekends if you can. Through October the museum stays open until 8 pm. If you can catch it after 5 pm, that might be your best bet; and I'd give yourself a good hour to see it all.

Reading, PA: Going to Ocean City, MD next week (Mon-Fri). What can we do with a 3-year-old if bad weather keeps us off the beach? Thanks!

The Kids' Table: Hi Reading, Fortunately Ocean City has been catering to tourists for a long time and is packed with things to do. If the weather chases you indoors, you can always drive go-karts or play miniature golf at Baja Amusements or play laser tag at Planet Maze and Laser Storm. For quieter pursuits, try the Purnell Museum in nearby Snow Hill or check out the 1920s art deco-style Mar-Va Theater in Pocomoke City. Ocean City itself has the Ocean City Life-Saving Station Museum. And if the weather cooperates, enjoy a live music performance held on the beach in the evenings throughout the week.

Arlington: My family is visiting this weekend, including my Mother, my brother and sister in law and their three kids: two boys (10 and 7) and one girl (4). They will be here Sat through Tuesday. We are definitely going to do the zoo. And my older nephew wants to go up the Washington Monument. Other ideas? I want to make sure we have enough entertainment for 4 days, but not overdo. Also, any advice on kid friendly restaurants?

The Kids' Table: Hey, Arlington. This is Anne, and it sounds like you're off to a good start. The National Zoo could easily fill a day. If you're planning to go inside the Washington Monument, you will need to plan ahead -- check that link for details on how to get tickets. On your trip to the Mall, you might also want to include a visit to the Museum of Natural History or a walk past the Reflecting Pool to the Lincoln Memorial. If you have time, I would also suggest a trip to the Baltimore Aquarium, or any of the three county fairs opening this weekend. And here are Alexa's recommendations for kid-friendly restaurants.

Restaurant suggestion: My friend has a one year old son and it is sometimes hard for all of us to go out to eat together. Some places aren't kid friendly, some don't take reservations (which will ensure we can eat on his schedule), he gets bored after a while, etc. However, we went to Benihana in Bethesda and it was perfect for all of us. The food was good, they take reservations, and he was ENTHRALLED with the excitement around him! All of the sights, sounds, and smells were fun for him and he was content to sit and hang out while we ate and gabbed for over 2 hours. If anyone knows of any more fun and exciting places to eat that adults can enjoy (non-Chucky Cheese-ish), let me know! I'm always looking for good places to go with them. Thanks!

The Kids' Table: Thanks for the suggestion, and we'll ask our table friends to come up with more. He is probably too young for our Readers' Choice 2002 Best Bet: Rainforest Cafe. But maybe a table back where the elephants roam won't be so spirited -- and a quieter spot for the adults to talk.

Alexandria, Va: I'm trying to plan a visit for my 11 yr old sister at the museums, but wasn't sure how much time to allocate to each. We were planning on Natural History & Air and Space. Is 2 hours for each too much?

The Kids' Table: Hi Alexandria. Aren't you sweet for planning in advance. I do think one could spend two hours at both the Air and Space and Natural History museums. There's so much to see, but I might worry about museum fatigue. If you're game, then go for it, especially if you plan some of that time in the museums' IMAX theaters or Air and Space's planetarium. That could be a nice break that gets both of you off your feet. Have fun. -- Maura

Ashburn, Va.: I have a 3-month-old and a 6-year-old and want to take a family vacation. Any suggestions?

The Kids' Table: Sounds like this isn't the year for a beach trip, but you could all enjoy a low-key trip in West Virginia. The natural mineral baths in Berkeley Springs, short walks in the woods, visits to a working farm are all real possibilities for a long weekend and require no more traveling than a two- to four-hour drive. Lancaster County, Pa., might be another good choice. too.

It might require more energy on your part, but taking the train to Philadelphia and sharing a museum, a park and a cheese steak with your 6-year-old might be fun. It all depends on how happy your 3-month-old is in a Snugli, stroller, etc.

I do recommend that you take advantage of stronger resources: the Post's Travel staff host a weekly discussion every Monday at 2. They might have a ready list of tried and true favorites; also there are books published by major guide book companies (like Fodor's "FYI" series) that are specifically geared to answer your questions. Happy travels. -- Kate

Alexandria, Va.: Hi. My mom and little sister (age 10) will be coming for a visit for the weekend of Aug. 23. I'm looking for a play/musical that would be enjoyable for the adults, but also suitable for a 10-year-old. Any suggestions? Thanks.

The Kids' Table: Has your child ever seen "The Wizard of Oz" on stage? West End Children's Theatre at 4615 Duke St. in Alexandria will have Dorothy, the Scarecrow, the Tin Man and the Cowardly Lion on Aug. 24. Call 703/370-2500. Be sure to follow Weekend's weekly Carousel column for some recommendations, too. -- Matt

Kensington, Md.: Any idea if or when the Kid-O-Rama book will be updated, for instance with Web sites? I refer to my copy all the time.

The Kids' Table: I'm afraid that I (Kate) can offer no help, Kensington. I do not believe that there are immediate plans to update "Kid-O-Rama," but as it is such a strong resource you may have to amend your copy for the time being. I hope you find us a valuable friend, too.

Somewhere, USA: My friend is bringing her 12 year old to visit DC for 4 days in August. Other than the Smithsonian and Capitol type stuff, I don't know what else to suggest they do. Any ideas?

The Kids' Table: I (Anne) think lots of visitors will find time on the Mall memorable, even if it's just walking and taking in the grand scale of L'Enfant's plan. A 12-year-old might particularly get a kick out of the American History Museum, or, not far off the Mall, the Spy Museum. If the weather's as gorgeous as it is today, I bet your friends would relish dinner at a sidewalk cafe -- maybe you can find some ideas in our neighborhood guides for Dupont Circle or Adams Morgan. You can also see my ideas for Arlington above.

Woodbridge, VA: Hello! I'm planning a weekend get-away at Natural Bridge, VA. Is it worth the trip?

The Kids' Table: Hi, Woodbridge . . . we may be lucky enough to get an opinion for you from our table mates today; but if not, you may just have to volunteer to spend a weekend away (sounds good to me) and give us a report back. -- Vicki

Natural Bridge: My parents took me and my brother there when we were 14-15. We stayed for a week (in nearby Massanutten), which is definitely WAY too long to be in that part of Virginia. But a weekend might be ok. The bridge itself is not that enthralling, but I think there is a sketchy-but-fun wax museum, horseback riding, and Endless Caverns nearby. Probably tons of farmer's markets and berry picking places nearby, too.

The Kids' Table: Thanks for the feedback -- you're only 16-17 now, right? I (Vicki) wonder if there are stops to and from that might make the journey more interesting as well.

Re: Ocean City and the 3-year-old:: I apologize, but I think the point of my question was missed. I don't think the 3 year old will be interested in mini-golf, museums, or laser tag. What can we do that would interest HER? We (mom and dad) are flexible, she's not quite so easy. Thanks again!

The Kids' Table: Hi Reading, I'm sorry if the first answer missed the target. It might help if we had a better idea of your 3-year-old's particular interests and abilities. Attractions in Ocean City and the surrounding area do focus on beach events, arcades and museums. The local arcades do make a point of providing activities for all ages, and I think Planet Maze and Laser Storm has options that would appeal to an active 3-year-old. There are also kid-themed cruises that leave six times a day from Ocean City Fishing Center on Route 50 and
Shantytown Road, but obviously if the weather's too bad those won't float either. If none of this works for you, my best suggestion is to take along plenty of books and games you know your child enjoys just in case, or see what's playing at the local movie theater. Hope this helps some.

The Kids' Table: Thanks for sharing your precious time, great questions and wonderful ideas with us. As your host at the Kids' Table, I must say I've never met a "neater" group. Come back any time. How 'bout noon, Aug. 21?

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