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The Flight Crew: Welcome, fellow travelers! Gary Lee, staff writer for the travel section reporting in as your acting flight captain today. In these uncertain times, we know that travelers are facing some big questions: whether to hit the road in case a war breaks out in the next few weeks, how to get the best bang for dwindling travel dollars, and how safe are the skies. We as professional travelers grapple with many of the same and more issues. We also deal with the same kind of logistics that you do: what's the best place for barbecue in Memphis, and so on. That's why these Monday chats are as fun and informative for us as they are for you. Today we have a full team aboard to try to field your questions. Included in the line-up are KC Summers, who edits the Post travel section, John Deiner, Assistant editor, Cindy Loose, who edits the weekly comings and goings column and writes features, Steve Hendrix, who edits the weekly Escapes column in the Wednesday Style section and writes for the Sunday travel section, Carol Sotilli, author of the q and a column, Andrea Sachs, copy editor for section, Anne McDonough, editorial aide for the section, and yours truly. We have a wide range of travel experiences between us. But we don't know everything and so welcome your two cents worth on questions we can't answer.

As we approach the Valentine's day holiday, my question for the day is whether you know of a perfect spot to become engaged or get married? It could be either a city or town or even a special place in the wilderness, restaurant or anywhere that has struck you as the most fitting venue for having the Big Question posed or for posing the question yourself.

The clickster with the most succinct, original answer wins a free pair of silk boxer shorts, blue and white, with a map of the Colorado Rockies, pictured on them.

Welcome Aboard!

Washington, D.C.: Just a comment. I had my first cruise experience in May 2002 and LOVED IT although it was a seven-day cruise, not a weekend cruise as is featured in your article. I wrote in as you seem to have omitted Carnival Cruise lines from your list at the end of the article. They get a thumbs up from me, also in terms of cabin (and bathroom!) space.

The Flight Crew: Hi Wash -- wow, another satisfied cruiser! FYI, we did include Carnival in our big chart on Page E4 of yesterday's section -- that's why we trimmed them from the contact list to the left of the chart. You'll note that we recommend them as being a leader in short cruises. -- KC

Springfield, Va.: Help! My sister and I have spent the last several weeks searching online for a summer vacation home on Lake Champlain. Every online search comes back either booked or cannot accommodate a multi-family group. There doesn't appear to be any real estate agencies in the Burlington, Vt. area that deal in rental properties either. We tried looking on the New York side, and that area offered even less in the way of accommodations.

Can you offer any suggestions?

Thanks!

The Flight Crew: I coincidentally just stopped by a Vermont trade fair, and picked up a brochure for the Basin Harbor Club on Lake Champlain, Vermont side. Have you checked it out?

If that doesn't work, try calling one of several tourism sites for Vermont. for the greater Burlington area, 877-686-5253. The middle region has it's own tourism bureau at 800-733-8376, and the islands of the lake have their own bureau too: 800-262-5226. The general number for all of Vermont is 1-800-Vermont.(Cindy)

This should make Cindy happy: Where was CoGo?

The Flight Crew: Thank you so much for asking. Every now and then, when there is a story that my editor thinks needs lots of display, CoGo gets kicked in the dirt. But CoGo is saving up her strength from the rest, and will be back Sunday. (Cindy)

Vienna, Va.: With all the "partnering," how can I determine what carrier will operate a certain flight?

The Flight Crew: Sottili here - Your best bet is to ask. Most of the airline Web sites will also place as asterisk next to flights that are code-shares. And some of the booking sites, such as travelocity.com, tell you when another airline is operating the flight.

Washington, D.C.: A friend and I are starting to plan our annual summer trip, and are considering Corsica and/or Sardinia. We would fly into Paris (this is a must, which is why Corsica might be better), and either do Corsica as a stop of about three southern cities, or focus only on Corsica.

My questions are: Is it worth it to go to Corsica for only three or four days? Would it be better to go directly there and spend a week or so there? Is it possible/a good idea to split our time (probably about a 10 days total) between Corsica and Sardinia?

Any general thoughts on either island? (By the way, we've both been to France and Italy multiple times, so missing the mainlands of either is okay.) Thanks!

The Flight Crew: Gary Lee here. I would vote for doing Corsica alone. I spent a week or so there a couple of years back and found that there was plenty to do to keep my attention for the whole time. First of all there are two VERY different cities, lots of smaller towns and a rustic mountain area in the middle. One must do is to take the train through across the island. It's a wonderfully scenic trip. Any other thoughts about this from travelers who know that part of the world?

Arlington, Va.: Hello Flight Crew,

I'd like to go to San Juan, Puerto Rico over the President's Day holiday weekend -- leaving Friday night or Saturday and returning on Monday. I'm trying to find a R/T for under $300 -- so far no luck. Any ideas?

The Flight Crew: Sottili here: That's a tall order. I'd say to look for e-savers on American the week before, but it's a holiday weekend, so there may be none. If you're flexible, you may try www.hotwire.com or www.priceline.com. And take a look at www.digitalcity.com and www.travelzoo.com for deals.

I want those boxers because: My ideal spot to be proposed to is in the Colorado Rockies (seriously, not just because of the boxers). I want to be at the top of a beautiful overlook like I saw near Golden and have his arms wrapped around me and have him whisper the propsal in my ear. No one else around, just the two of us and a beautiful view of the mountains and the crystal blue sky. (and in case my boyfriend is reading - take a hint, we are going to the Rockies this summer)

The Flight Crew: Gary says: I like that answer and it puts you in the running for that prize.

Code share: You can also tell in internatioal flights if your flight number is four digits long -- sure sign of a code-share.

The Flight Crew: Sottili here: Not sure I understand this. United flights to Frankfurt, for example, are four digits, while Lufthansa's are three digits.

Washington, D.C.: I have two questions on travel insurance. I am going on my own to South Africa in May where I will pick up a rental car and explore the country for three weeks. Because I have always believed that insurance is a sucker bet if you can afford the long-shot of a loss, I have not purchased trip interruption or cancellation insurance, and I have purchased the minimum possible auto insurance ($1,000 deductible). (Neither my local auto insurance and nor my credit card company provide any additional auto insurance for South African rentals.) So my question is this: Do you agree that travelers should be self-insurers because the chance of suffering a major loss is too remote, and buying "peace of mind" is just too expensive? Thanks. GMC

The Flight Crew: There is no perfect answer: I tend to thrust fate to the wind and hope for the best; my husband, a wiser, more cautious man, wants to put out for insurance.
But you are talking about a very expensive trip. Write on a pad of paper the amount you have to pay up front for this trip, then research the cost of insuring it properly, and see how those two numbers look next to each other. That might help you answer your own question. (Cindy)

Germantown, Md.: Perfect place to get married: The Wauwinet on Nantucket. Right on the beach, only enough room for close friends and family. A cool, jaunty breeze and the sun to take away any chills, except for the ones you get from looking into your husband-to-be's eyes as you say "I Do!"....Perfect! I plan on renting the whole place out for my wedding weekend when the right guy comes along!

The Flight Crew: Germantown, sounds terrific, says Gary. Let us know when that takes place.

Arlington, Va.: I saw a wedding option that I thought was interesting lately. It's on Icelandair: you get married (officially at the airport -- ick) but also in the middle of the flight in a commitment ceremony. Once you arrive in Iceland, they tell you which city in Europe you're going to for your honeymoon (so it's a surprise) and you even get an overnight cruise in there. Definitely for the spontaneous!

The Flight Crew: That's an original one, Arlington, says Gary. Much thanks!

Washington D.C.: Have any of you ever stayed at Pedro's South of the Border which is sandwiched in the middle of nowhere on 95 right on the border between the Carolinas? If so, what kinds of prices are they?

And also how far into the Florida Keys does 95 South run?

The Flight Crew: Hi, DC.

I've never stayed at SOTB, though, gee, it seems like I should have by now. We did a little piece on it last year, and the prices are pretty reasonable. Of course, you're in the middle of tacky-palooza, so you get what you pay for. Check www.predroland.com for all the details.

And I-95 stops in Miami, but there are a million signs directing you to Route 1, which continues south to Key West.

-john

Alexandria, Va.: G'afternoon all the crew. I'm going to Montreal for the weekend in early/mid March. Is the weather going to be too cold to explore the city? Any recommendation for a place to stay -- a moderate and close to sightseeing spots. Is Latin Quarter a safe/intersteing area to stay? Thanks much.

The Flight Crew: The last time I was in Montreal was for a few frigid January weeks and I still had a blast; March will be chilly but you;ll still be able to really explore. It's such an incredible city, filled with jazz and wonderful restaurants and just an all-around great atmosphere. For my money, I'd explore the Latin Quarter, Gay Village and the Plateau Mont-Royal over hitting the touristy spots in Old Montreal (although walking down the rue de la Commune, along the river, is lovely, and there certainly are plenty of things to do in the area). I stayed in a delightful B&B right off Place St-Louis in the Plateau, just minutes from the Latin Quarter(the name's excaping me right now, but it was something like Jeanne and Pierre), and felt much more like a part of the city than I did when exporing Old Montreal, and wa right over the Sherbrooke metro stop so completely accessible. A few chats ago we came up with a list of nightlife and restaurant ideas in the Plateau/Latin Quarter, so if you check the archives you might be inspired to plan your spring trip.
--Anne

Washington, D.C.: I loved the cruise article. I am going on my first one this year and I am apprehensive and excited. Just out of curiousity, who is the Curmudgeon, Joe Cruise, etc?

The Flight Crew: You'll have fun, Wash. Just go with three of your crankiest, wackiest friends. It worked for us.

And I'm sorry, we're aren't unable to unseal our secret identities until 50 years after the last one of us dies.


Okay, okay. Just don't tell anyone: Turbogirl was Andrea Sachs, who may be the only cruiser in Royal Caribbean history to leave a ship slimmer than she came on (except for all those Norwalk virus victims, of course); Joe Cruise was John Deiner--when we disembarked, it took John 90 minutes to say goodbye to all his friends(It tookest with the very eldery deaf ones); the curmudgeon was K.C. Summers, who REALLY did look distressed for the first hour, and who REALLY did end up having fun (although, I don't see her booking another one any time soon.); Steve Hendrix, me, was the Sophisticate because, well, somebody had to be.

Washington, D.C.: What kinda reward is silk boxers?!

The Flight Crew: Gary Lee says: the kind some people wear and others give as gifts....

Washington in Body.....Cruising in Mind.....: Afternoon Crew....loved your article yesterday about the "fantastic four" and their cruise experience...I'm getting ready to head to San Juan for a 7day trip on the Carnival Destiny...any experiences w/ this ship, since it's one of Carnival's oldest "BIG" ships? And any excursion or shopping MUST-DO's at it's ports of call (St Thomas, Martinique, Barbados and Aruba)? Thanks....

The Flight Crew: Hi Wash, thanks for the kind words. None of us has cruised on the Destiny, but it gets good reviews on Cruisecritic.com (a great source, btw, for unbiased cruise info). I (KC) sailed on Carnival's Ecstasy to the Western Caribbean a couple of years ago and had a good time, standards seemed high, entertainment suitably splashy, etc.

Of your port calls, I can help with Barbados. There are the usual duty-free shops in Bridgetown, the capital -- ho hum. Focus instead on exploring the island, which has an amazing array of natural wonders, old English churches, charming seaside villages etc. Check out the surreal underground caves, see the dramatic east coast with its crashing surf (and surfers), visit manor houses -- you'll think you're in England. -- KC

Germantown, Md.: Hi there! As a present to myself for no other reason than "Why the heck not?" I'm planning on London in April by myself. Right now, I'm finding rates at about $550 or so, nonstop from Dulles. Is this good or should I wait? What's London like at that time of year? Any precautions for a single woman traveling alone?

The Flight Crew: Sottili here - Looking at Fly Buys from last year, the going rate to London in April was $444-$486, so $550 isn't too far off the mark. I might wait a few weeks and see if any sales show up, unless you need specific dates and flight times. London in spring can be nice, but there's a better chance it will be rainy and cool - take a slicker. As for traveling alone, I've always felt safe in London, although, as for any big city, you have to keep your wits about you.

Rockville, Md.: I'll soon be visiting my 73-year-old mother and her sister in West Palm Beach, Fla. They are in pretty good shape -- usually walk two miles a day. Any suggestions for fun things to do in West Palm Beach or nearby?

The Flight Crew: If you can take a drive, I'd recommend the butterfly museum south of Fort Lauderdale. You and old alike love it--beautiful gardens and hordes of butterflies under netting. I forget the name, but a quick web search would turn it up. (If you can't find it, email me at loosec@washpost.com)

I also enjoy the water taxis in Ft. Lauderdale, and the waterfront restaurants at taxi stops. Other readers have ideas?

For Springfield, Va.: Does it have to be Lake Champlain? There is another large lake is northeastern Vermont that is beautiful. I can't remember the name (it's long and I think starts with an M) but it is up near Derby and spans the Canadian border. You might like it, a little less crowded than Lake Champlain so you might find something.

The Flight Crew: Thanks for that alternative. (Cindy)

Washington, D.C.: I have a question about the cruise article. Who's the sexy redhead in the blue bikini cavorting with the dolphin in the photo?

The Flight Crew: Sorry to disappoint you, Wash, but I didn't get her name. Not that I'd tell you if I had! -- KC

Fairfax, Va.: Just a simple question. What can you recommend in Atlanta, Ga., for a romantic weekend over Valentine's Day? We're going to be there anyway, and want to enjoy it!

The Flight Crew: Hi, Fairfax.

Well, since yer going to be there anyway, you may want to go for a stroll through Piedmont Park and check out the botanical gardens at the edge. It's very pretty, peaceful, as long as the weather cooperates. Steve and I both like the Peasant chain of restaurants, but there are pleasant little restaurants to pick from around town. If you have a car, Callaway Gardens, south of the city, is beautiful. And Stone Mountain park is a nice day getaway, with places to hike.

Any other ideas on romantic Atlanta?

--john

Reston, Va.: I enjoyed your article about short cruises. There's a point you missed, however. The stops at the cruise line's own private island (CoCo Cay for Royal Caribbean, Half Moon Cay for Holland America) are dictated by weather. High waves, wind, etc., can prevent ship access. My son and wife splurged on a short cruise and the island stop was unavailable that day, instead the ship just sailed around and people had to stay on board. I don't know how often this happens, but it's a bigger disappointment on a short cruise than on a 7-10 day one.

The Flight Crew: You're absolutely right, Reston. It makes a big difference. In fact, I happened to take a second short cruise only a few weeks later (to report on the virus outbreak). It was an identical itinerary (on Carnival), except with no stop on an island, just another day at sea. I, for one, got a case of ship fever. That beach day was great, and I missed having it. --Steve

Burke, Va.: Our 17-year-old daughter will be traveling to Europe on a student tour this spring. We've been advised to find some kind of security wallet for her passport and money. Any suggestions on what works best as far as security and ease of use? Thanks for your help!

The Flight Crew: I always use my handy handy Eagle Creek security money belt, which clips around the waist. You tuck it under your waistband and yes, you may look like you've gained a few but its hard for anyone to get at your pasport without your knowledge. I sleep with mine on when traveling. Neck pouches are bulky and not as secure, and while some people like the pouches you clasp around your ankles, that leaves shorts and skirts off the packing list. Money belt all the way.
-Anne

Silver Spring, Md.: I have a 6:15 a.m. flight out of BWI next week. American Airlines says I should get there 90 minutes in advance. Do I really need to arrive at 4:45 a.m.? I'm a bit skeptical that there will be any agents at the counter, despite what the airline says.

The Flight Crew: did you ask what time the American ticket desk will be open? I agree, I doubt it will be open at that hour. See what they say, and proceed accordingly. If you are carry-on only, then you can shave at least a half-hour off the 90 minutes.--andrea

Annapolis, Md.: Planning a trip to Paris in August. Large family group and some members are not very, shall we say, cosmopolitan. Rumors are coming back that the city has become crowded with refugees from the Mid-East wars' and that it's not a pleasant place to visit now. Sorry, but that's the way it's being told to me. Is there any truth to this? Or is it just coming from, frankly, racist friends of the family.

The Flight Crew: Paris fan Gary Lee here. The middle eastern population of Paris is a bit more high profile than in the past but that has not stopped it from being the most breathtaking destination that we know of. If you don't go, you will regret it.

Burke, Va.: I have an opportunity to go skiing at Whistler in early March. The lowest airfare I can find to Vancouver is $400. Can I do better?

The Flight Crew: Sottilli here: Airfare to Vancouver is usually high. You may be better off doing a package deal - try www.skicouncil.com for club trips. Good travel agencies include www.moguls.com, www.lynxskivacations.com, www.skitherockies.com, www.anymountain.com. Also, check out www.whistlerblackcomb.com.

Corsica vs. Sardinia: I spent a few days on Sardinia during a
break in my semester in Rome. We were
in the south of the island, far (both
geographically and metaphorically) from
the restorts and beaches on the "Costa
Smeralda" (I think that's the name). Small
villages, very little English spoken, no
fancy hotels. But some great food, very
friendly people, and striking countryside. It
was very rural and felt very different from
mainland Italy. We visited the cities of
Calgiari and Oristano but also little
villages in between.

The Flight Crew: Gary says: your input is very much appreciated!

Washington, D.C.: I am going to Malta for a week in late May. I have read much about it so I am not looking for factual information. Have any of you been there, and if so, do you think it was a worthwhile desination. I am going mainly for history/general sightseeing, rather than beaches/nightlife.

The Flight Crew: Hi, DC.

As it happens, I'm Malta bound at the end of next month, and I can't wait. No one on the staff has stepped foot on Maltese ground at this writing, so I'm psyched. Have spoken at length with tour operators and other folks who've been to Malta, including the parents of our very own Andrea Sachs. They described it as "their favorite place to visit on Earth"--and they've been everywhere.

-john

Falls Church, Va.: To Corsica/Sardinia traveler: My husband and I took a two-week cycling trip on Sardinia several years ago. Once one gets away from the chic northern coastline, it is a very unique, relatively unspoiled island maintaining a lot of ancient customs and consuming mostly local products. Despite belonging to Italy it is its own little country.

The Flight Crew: Thanks, says Gary. Good input!

Washington, D.C.: How many users read these chats? I love them and read them all the time!

washingtonpost.com: Many, many, many...

The Flight Crew: We'll second that! Keep those postings coming...

Northern Virginia: Perfect wedding place? Sorrento, Italy. I am planning to be married at a villa that has a cliff-side garden. So while we're saying our vows, the backdrop will be the gorgeous turquoise ocean, and we'll all be surrounded by orange and lemon trees and flowers from the villa's garden. Then we can just take a few steps back, and relax while drinking prosecco while the staff prepares a wonderful six-course meal complete with pasta, rabbit, stuffed squash blossoms. Sounds perfect to me!

The Flight Crew: Sounds perfect to us, too, says Gary and it definitely puts you in the running for the prize!

Fairfax, Va.: Planning a trip including the Grand Canyon in April, and hoping to do a day's hike part way down one of the trails and back. Can we assume that concessionaires at the park offer picnic lunches to carry, or should we buy provisions in Flagstaff en route?

The Flight Crew: You'll have no problem getting provisions in the park itself, Fairfax. There are a lot of options on the South Rim, from a full-service grocery store (a pretty big one at that) to the excellent restaurant at the El Tovar (which will do a box lunch, I believe) to a lot of burger and hot-dog options in between). I'm envious. --Steve

Rockville, Md.: I know that the worst spot to get engaged would have to be a very public restaurant when the answer isn't yes.

The Flight Crew: Thanks, says Gary. We hope that you don't know that from experience.

Washington, D.C.: Trip is in two weeks! My parents have the opportunity to go to the Dominican Republic the third week in February. The trip is paid for from my dad's company. They are hesitant after hearing not great things about travel there.

They are both well traveled -- and love the Virgin Islands in particular.

I think they should go. What info do you have so I can convince them to take the trip?

The Flight Crew: Do you know where they are going to be? The resort areas like Punta Cana are super-safe and quite nice, with all of the tropical requisites: white sand beaches, loads of water sports, fruity cocktails, cloudless skies, etc. Santo Domingo, however, has the usual urban ills. And it's not wise to go too close to the haiti border. Elsewhere, though, there is great golfing and some five-star resorts and interesting crafts and amazing young DR baseball players, if they can catch a game. Now the short answer: Tell them to go! --andrea

Buyer's regret: Hi, I have buyer's regret after buying an air/hotel package for Rome off of Expedia for a week starting President's Day weekend. I bought this on a whim for me and my husband - paid about $1780 (2 roundtrip tickets from National, 6 nights in what Expedia says is a 4 star hotel...Hotel Hermitage - anyone have any comments about this?...and all taxes, surcharges, and a $120 cancellation waiver fee for both of us.) Now I'm wondering whether I should cancel the package and try to get a better deal. Did I pay too much? This is my first time going to Europe so I'm feeling unsure of myself.

Any affirmation or advice is much appreciated! Thanks!

The Flight Crew: First, see if you can get some pictures and descriptions of the hotel online (try www.epinions,for example, or the hotel should have it's own site). If it does seem to really be a 4-star quality property, then you probably aren't overpaying. To be certain, you need to spend a few minutes going on line to figure out how much you'd pay for airfare alone, and how much that hotel would cost you if you booked it yourself. That will answer your question for sure, and either make you feel you've got a good deal, or make it clear it's not worth what you're paying.
My concern would be a different one: do you really want to spend your entire week in the same hotel in Rome, especially since this is your first trip to Europe? With six nights to spend, I'd at least want to get out and about for a night or two. Do readers agree? (Cindy)

Potomac, Md.: My college-student son is in Holland for a semester. He asked me to send him a travel guide to Europe for budget traveling -- hostels, cheap eats, travel tips, things to see, etc. Compact book, if possible. What would you recommend?

The Flight Crew: I'm a Lonely Planet fan for most trips, but for last spring in Europe I used Let's Go Western Europe and was pretty happy with it. The researchers are all Harvard undergrads, so their opinions often tend to be more on target for student travelers than those of some other companies, and it's definitely budget. It's kind of bulky, as you'd expect a book that covers such a large territory to be, but I just ripped out chapters as I left each country, leaving them behind in hostels for other travelers (I hate destroying books but lose a country and your pack gets amazingly lighter).
--Anne

Proposal: I took my wife to a B & B in the country and after turning out the lights but before she got into bed, I placed the ring, still in the box on her pillow. Are the Rockies on the front or back of those boxer shorts? I'm a medium. If my parents are reading this, I immediately left and went to my room (wink, wink, nudge, nudge).

The Flight Crew: Thanks, says Gary. The Rockies are on the front and the back.

Herndon, Va.: I’m planning a trip to Ireland in May with my girlfriend. She wants to go three days early to visit with her sister who lives there. I found a fare of $418 on bestfares.com -- with fuel charges, taxes, tags etc., it was $485, but reasonable, so I bought it. Turns out, my girlfriend’s sister was not going to be there the first three days, so my girlfriend want to change her trip to leave when I do, but return three days later. I figure there’s going to be a fee, but they tell me there’s a $200 processing fee, a $230 difference in the fare, since it’s no longer on sale, and some other $15 fee. I couldn’t believe it -- it costs almost as much to change it as it does to buy it straight! My questions: Is this legal? And since I assume it is (maybe this is their new way to make a profit), is there anything I can do about it (I have not made the change yet)?

The Flight Crew: Sottili here: I'm afraid you are out of luck. Stiff change fees are very common, expecially when you try to change international discounted tickets. You could appeal to bestfares.com, but they are merely passing on the airline's change charge. Maybe you should appeal to your girlfriend's sister to change her plans - tell her you'll take her out to an incredible dinner, which will be cheaper (and more enjoyable) than changing your flight.

Bahamas bound: A quick question. I know the Post did an article on Grand Bahama Vacations a while back. I was wondering if anyone has been on one of these trips since the hotel was renovated? It is now called Royal Oasis and has a Sunspree and a Crowne Plaza.

It's a free trip for me, so I'm in no position to complain, but will there be a place to avoid rank smoke smells, how crowded is it, etc.

Thanks for your time.

The Flight Crew: Hi, I was that GBV writer, and though I have not been back since, I had no complaints pre-make over (just give me sun and water and I am as happy as a clam). Perhaps, though, a chatster has been? If so, please tell us what's shiny and new there?--andrea

To Burke, Va., student traveler: I'm going to Europe as well and got a money belt on www.ricksteves.com for 9 bucks. It's really thin also and will hold passport, credit cards, money without being too bulky tucked under your waistband. Don't go for the over-the-shoulder thing -- I had one when I went to Switz years ago and it's a magnet for pickpockets, not to mention I lost it on part of my trip, because it was too easy to take off.

The Flight Crew: hmm, $9 is about half of what I paid for my Eagle Creek a few years ago. Agreed on the over-the-shoulder gadget; straps that are out in the open are screaming for attention.
-Anne

Columbia, Md.: I'm trying to go to Bermuda for the last week in March/beginning of April (and am currently dreaming of warm weather). What's a good airfare deal and should I wait around awhile to see if a cheaper fare pops up? Also, any tips on place to stay and eat that won't cost too much but not be horrible? Thanks for your help.

The Flight Crew: Hi, Columbia.

I'm guessing you know it, but just remember that Bermuda weather can be really fickle in early spring--think of the weather along the lower Carolina coast and you'll get an idea of what the temperatures could be like out there.

That said, whenever we see a fare of $300 or so round trip we jump--that's about as low as it goes. And there really aren't any dumps in Bermuda. I always stay in a cottage with a full kitchen and split the meals between restaurants and cooking in; cottage colonies are all over the island, in all sorts of price ranges. Food is expensive in the supermarkets, but it's still a lot cheaper than eating out all the time. Check out www.bermudatourism.com.

-john

Pizza in New York, N.Y.: I'm a native New Yawka and would like to recommend a place to the peanut gallery. If you are ever in Queens, driving out to Long Island, stop at J&S Pizza on Merrick Boulevard in Rosedale. It's the BEST Sicilian pizza around! Get it with sausage and light sauce, you'll be in HEAVEN! I cannot wait to go to Queens in March to have a pie myself!

The Flight Crew: Have you been to John's on Bleeker? That's this native New Yorker's favorite, although Grimaldi's, as written up in Escapes last week, is a very very very close second. Looks like I'll be making a trip out to Queens on my next trip home...Thanks for the tip!
-Anne

Timonium, Md.: What are the appropriate tips for a hotel concierge arranging dinner and limo service?
Also, is there any relationship between being the curmudgeon and being the boss (editor)?

The Flight Crew: Gary Lee says: There is no conventional wisdom that we know of. My own thinking would be that it should be fitting with the level and difficulty of service. Five to ten dollars would seem like a good starting point.

Other Vermont lake: I think the spot the poster was referring to is Lake Memphramagog. This may sound odd, but I would also suggest contacting the alumni offices of colleges and the university up there as I have seen listings for lakeside vacation homes in the classified sections of their alumni magazines.

The Flight Crew: Good idea, says Gary. Thanks!

Flying from Austria to London: Hello and thank you SO much if you can help me as I've never flown between countries in Europe before. I'm flying into Munich this Saturday morning for a ski trip in the Hopfagarten area, Austria. The tour ends the morning of the 15th and I plan on flying to London before my departure out of Heathrow on the 17th (never been to London!) I can eithier fly out of Munich, as the tour provides me transportation there, or fly to London from the Innsbruck airport which is the closest one to the ski resort. I'd have to arrange my way to the Innsbruck airport though. Considering costs of flights would you recommend flying out of one airport over another? Would I need to book my flight before I leave this week using expedia or travelocity?

The Flight Crew: You would be wise to book the flight before you leave. Whether you fly out of Munich or Innsbruck depends on the details: check the cost of actual flights convenient to the time you're flying. Prices of flights even to the same place vary so much, depending on how booked they are and other factors, that it's not possible to predict which airport will have the best deal without actually checking it. Then, make sure you can get to Innsbruck easily and cheaply from your resort, if Innsbruck seems to have a better deal. Best guess: Munich is bigger, so will have more, less cheaper flights. But who knows---book before you go. (Cindy)

Ashburn, Va.: My family of four will be going to Oahu for the first time in late June. What is a reasonable airfare? I am seeing $800-900 for roundtrip. Though we prefer to go out of Dulles, any of the area airports are fine. A stop, preferably in Los Angeles, is also fine. Do you think we can get lower fares? Thanks.

The Flight Crew: Sottili here: That's the going rate for late June travel. Consolidators sometimes offer lower fares - ask a travel agent.

Romantic Atlanta: Although it could be considered a bit "touristy", I love the revolving restaurant on top of the Westin Peachtree Plaza called "The Sundial". The food was fantastic and the view is memorable...

The Flight Crew: Ah, yes. You're absolutely right. It is touristy, but it's way cool, too--used to love watching the sunset rom up (well, as long as we weren't rotating away from it at the time!)
--john

Proposal spot: My nomination is the spot where I proposed to my bride: during a long nature walk on the very same spot where she first told me she loved me about a year earlier. Even though we've moved, we still go back to that nature trail when we are traveling in the area. (Could use the boxers too.)

The Flight Crew: Thanks, says Gary. Would you care to offer any specifics about the locale of the trail?

Native New Jerseyan: For romantic Atlanta: I used to take walks at the President's house grounds at Emory University, off maybe Clifton and N. Decatur Rd NE, if I remember. Beautiful dogwoods and redbud. Also the streets that ring Brookhaven Golf Club, go up Peachtree Rd, past Lenox Square about a mile or so, turn left into the neighborhood opposite Cherokee Shopping Ctr. And eat at one of the Peasant restaurants. I sure do miss them.

The Flight Crew: Yer right, NNJ. I wonder how the Peasants have been able to be so good for so long? Thanks for chiming in.
-john

Washington, D.C.: Hi! Just wanted to share a book recommendation for armchair travelers: "Flight: 100 years of aviation" by R.G. Grant (2002), published by the Smithsonian, National Air and Space Museum. This book is an enjoyable read, with lots of fascinating vignettes and superb photos.

For example, the first inflight movies were shown on Deutsche Luft Hansa (as it was originally spelled) -- silents naturally; even if there had been talkies in those days, the engine noise would have been too loud. In those same planes, the seats were made of wicker in order to save weight, which was negated by the heavy overcoats the passengers had to wear to keep warm.

On the London-Paris route, the pilots often navigated by following a highway that ran from Paris to the coast, which worked well until the northbound plane collided with the southbound plane, as both were using the same navigational trick.

Few realize that the zeppelins, including the Hindenberg, had a conspicuous swastika, as did all other DLH planes of that time.

And so on -- a fun read! (No, I don't work for the Smithsonian...)

The Flight Crew: Thanks, says Gary.

World Traveler: Are there any Web sites where you can type the name of the place and it will show/tell you where it is located in reference to a big city? I am mostly concerned about international destinations, sometimes I hear about those interesting towns and villages but don't have a way of determining exactly where they are (until I get home and can take a look at my Atlas). Some sites show maps, etc., but they are generally local maps so there is no way of telling how far you are from a major airport or city. By the way, I love the IcelandAir idea, if you were collecting votes from clickers, I would definitely go for it! As long as I am with my beloved, where I go would not matter!

The Flight Crew: For destinations in the U.S. and Canada, www.mapquest.com is invaluable, and will not only give distances but driving directions and driving times. Any readers know of anything comparable for other countries?

Silver Spring, Md.: Just returning from a cruise on the Dawn Princess, I can attest to their alcohol policy. Beer and wine are in fact allowed on the ship. Hint, while in port, pick up a six-pack of the local brew. Also, they don't adhere too strictly to the policy re: the hard stuff, if you know what I mean.

The Flight Crew: Sottili here: Thanks for the info. We've heard that they sometimes turn a blind eye to bringing aboard the hard stuff - depends on who is doing the looking.

Dreaming of cruising: Your cruise article inspired me. I really want to take a short cruise, and I see lots of good deal on three- and four-day cruises. The problem I have in airfare. By the time you get the last minute cruise deals, airfare to Florida is too high. Are there any tricks?

Also, do you need a passport for cruises? I'm almost 30 and have never bothered to get one (I've been meaning to fix that for about 8 years).

The Flight Crew: Well, there's always Southwest and JetBlue, which both fly to Fort Lauderdale, but even they are not cheap right now (it's prime time to fly to Fla.). But remember, you don't have to book your cruise last-minute to get a deal. You can get great deals doing just the opposite, planning way ahead -- that's what we did for this cruise.

About the only advice I can give is to check the e-deals on Wednesdays at individual airline sites and on our own wonderful washingtonpost.com -- Florida pops up frequently. -- KC

McLean, Va.: Help! My husband and I are going to Belize next month and I can't find his passport. What is the fastest way to get a new one? Thanks so much!

The Flight Crew: For expedited service, you will have to go to a passport center. The one in DC is at 1111 19th St. You will have to make an appointment and prove that you need it in a jiff (and are not just impatient) Make sure you have all documents, including flight info. The number to make an appointment: 202-647-0518. Depending on your time frame, you can also do speedy service by mail and pay more for overnight, or hire a private firm to push it through for you, but that'll cost. Check the State Department's Web site on passports for info and prices.--andrea

Re: Solo London: I am also a female traveling solo to London. Just use common sense and keep aware of your belongings and you'll be fine. Until I planned this trip, I had no idea so many single women travel solo to London. One idea is London Walks. These are great intro's to the city and also have pub walks. Web site is www.walks.com

The Flight Crew: Thanks.

Reston, Va.: My family and I (three kids)were thinking of vacationing in Vermont this summer at Lake Champlain. This would be a first time in the region -- are there certain areas of the lake that are preferable to others, areas to avoid? Do you know if there are reliable companies to rent lakefront cabins from, or perhaps other lakefront lodging? Thanks much!

The Flight Crew: Two Vermont/Lake Champlain questions in one chat is a record; maybe we should go and write soon. Bottom line, no personal experience in the room, but the tourism numbers I handed out to the last person with a Vermont question should help. Meanwhile, I'll ask my boss if I can go and check it out. (Cindy)

Feedback on Whistler: It seems you can't get to Vancouver easily from anywhere on the east coast! When my husband and I went last fall, we flew non-stop to Seattle and rented a car. It's 148 miles up I-5, scenery is beautiful, and the border crossing was a snap. If you've got the time, it would be worth it.

BTW, we took the ferry to Victoria and then across to Port Angeles on the return, and that was also an adventure!

The Flight Crew: Sottili here: I don't know that I'd try this in winter, especially for a ski trip, but it sounds like a plan for the rest of the year.

Potomac, Md.: Question on the cruise article. When you talked about paying for an excursion, do you pay on the ship or pay the local operator of the outing?

The Flight Crew: You pay on the ship and through the ship. It's one of them there sweetheart deals. It's a mixed blessing -- you know the tour is vetted and safe, but you'll be hanging out with a whole lot of your fellow cruisers. Of course, you can also jump ship and arrange your own excursions -- touts abound at the ports. -- KC

Alexandria, Va.: I am meeting some friends in New York for a weekend, and we are considering staying at the Belvedere Hotel at 319 w. 48th Street. The reviews on Yahoo look promising at $160.00, but I wondered if any of you have stayed there or know anything about it? If not, do you have any other suggestions for hotels in the theater district around the same price? Thanks!

The Flight Crew: Hi, Al. No one here has stayed there, but let's throw it out to the Clicksters: Anyone been to the Belvedere?

Clifton, Va.: Thinking of heading to South Beach in March with girlfriend. Can you recommend a couple oceanfront hotels? Opinion of the South Beach Marriot? Thanks.

The Flight Crew: We like the Raleigh, says Gary or if you want to spend some major bucks the Delano. I also like the Marriott, found it surprisingly cool for a chain property...

Proposal: The Sahara, of course. But I don't need a pair of boxers.

The Flight Crew: Thanks, says Gary.

Washington, D.C.: Hello -- I always look forward to reading your chats!

Now I have a question. I have the opportunity to go to Paris, Amsterdam, and London for 10 days in the beginning of July. Will it be horribly overcrowded? Will there be extremely long lines at museums, etc.? But I am excited because I have wanted to travel overseas for years, so maybe on this "first" trip I will just enjoy being in Europe. Thanks for any advice!

The Flight Crew: July is a crowded time in Europe, but it's crowded at Rehobeth, too, and people still go there in summer. Come to think of it, that's why those places are crowded--they are great places to go in July.

So go for it, and have a ball. (Cindy)

Damascus, Md.: Hello,

I booked a round trip flight to Bordeaux, France, last night on Air France. On Friday the price was $377 round trip, last night I booked if for $821. I just assumed that the price went up on the first of the month. However, checked it this morning and the price went back down to $377. Do airlines normally increase prices on the weekends? I still got a good deal, but wish I had waited 12 hours to book.

Also, know of any must does in Bordeaux?

Thanks for the help!

The Flight Crew: Sottili here: If you paid $821 for a trip that is now $377, call them and get it changed. You may have to pay a penalty - Air France is not a U.S. carrier, so 24-hour rule probably doesn't apply. Most U.S. carriers give you 24 hours to change without penalty.

Washington, D.C.: Vegas -- any suggestions on what to do outside of the casinos? Is the weather too cold to go to the Grand Canyon in mid-February? Thanks!

The Flight Crew: Hi, DC...I did a big story on places to kill an afternoon without gambling in D.C. Check out our index on the Travel home page (or maybe .com can give us a link? Please? Pretty please!).

As far as temps at the Grand Canyon, it could very well be chilly, but go anyway. It's too good to pass up.

-john

Silver Spring, Md.: any news on Delta's new service--Song?

The Flight Crew: No one knows yet when it will be flying out of the D.C. area; it's beginning with New York to Florida flights. But with satellite TV, how bad could it be? CoGo will be watching for the first announcement of when it will come flying our way.(Cindy)

Washington, D.C.: Any place you guys haven't been that you want to go?

The Flight Crew: The list is endless, WDC, and the more we travel the longer it gets:

Andrea: Bhutan
K.C.: New Zealand
Anne: India
John: the Galapagos
Gary: Tibet
Cindy: Australia (but she's going there in April)
Carol: "One of those islands in the South Pacific where I could stay in one of those huts with a glass and just sit and watch the fish and the....MORE LIKE THIS."
Steve: India, Laos, North Korea

Romantic Atlanta: How could I forget? The Duck Pond - take Peachtree Road North to Lakeview Ave NE - just north of Lindbergh Rd, at the southern edge of Buckhead. You have to park either at Christ the King church on Peachtree or on a side street. Weeping Willows may be coming out if it's a warm February. Tres romantic!
NNJ

The Flight Crew: Oh, yeah, the Duck Pond! Keep on thinkin' NNJ.

Washington, D.C.: Some friends have invited me to join them early March on a trip to Athens and the Islands (Crete, Mykonos) for two weeks. Is such an offseason trip a good idea? Will much be open then? It probably will be too cold to go to the beach. The appeal is a cheap trip to Greece -- does this make sense?

The Flight Crew: Gary Lee says: GO! I was in the Greek islands in the shoulder season of October and found a surprising amount going on, so don't expect that it will be dead. It's true that you probably won't be able to swim but you can stroll the beaches, eat nicely, and so on. I also found Athens to be more fun than I had been led to expect.

Re: Buyer's regret: Hi Cindy,

Thanks for taking my question. Wanted to clarify what you meant -- because we'll be in Rome for six nights, do you suggest we stay in more than one hotel in Rome or that we spend some time outside of Rome in the outskirts or another town? I got the impression Rome had so much to offer that I thought six nights wouldn't be enough to see Rome. If your suggestion is to go see another town/city, do you have any suggestions. Since we won't be renting a car, I assume that we'll be limited?

Thanks so much!

The Flight Crew: I meant to get out of Rome while you're there. It's a personal decision, but if it were me, I'd hope a train to Florence for a night or two, or even some small town outside the city. Again, that's one person's opinion (actually two, Gary agrees) (Cindy)

European maps: For Europe, go to the electronic version of the old faithful: Michelin. Their site is www.viamichelin.com. Not only good maps (though I am annoyed that the image window remains quite small), but the full database of their Red Guide to hotels and restaurants.

The Flight Crew: Thanks.

Arlington, Va.: My fiance dropped to his knee under a blooming cherry blossom tree while we were walking along the Tidal Basin. A beautiful and memorable D.C. engagement setting.

The Flight Crew: Thanks Arlington, says Gary. It puts you in the prize running!

Boxers please, Montgomery Village, Md.: I want the boxers because my Husband is from the Colorado Rockies! The ideal place to be proposed to is on the beach at Sunset. My husband proposed to me at the Virginia beaches near Norfolk, lovely and quiet. One of the best places to get married is local, Brookside Gardens in Silver Spring. It's absolutely beautiful and not very expensive.

The Flight Crew: Okay, says Gary. You're in the running!

Alexandria, Va.: A nice problem to have. . . : Employer is paying for all this: I am going to be in N.O., LA for Wed. night, Thursday day and night, and Friday day and night the last week of April. I will be busy all day long (early in the a.m. until after 5) both days in business seminars. It is the weekend of the French Quarter Festival, but work won't spring for more time there and I cannot afford it, so I am leaving at 6:30 a.m. Saturday (the only reason I am not leaving Friday night is that the airfare was more expensive than the extra night in the hotel!). I have been there before, but a good while ago, and I had time to wander around in the day time. How would I best use my time at night. I am not a Bourbon Street type, more of Preservation Hall and real jazz. I will also be alone, and am a woman in her early 30s NOT looking for "company". Ahem.

Thanks. Your chats and section in the paper are really invaluable.

The Flight Crew: Hi Alex, that IS a nice problem to have. If you haven't done it, definitely take in a Preservation Hall Jazz Band show. Unfortunately you will have to traipse through the Quarter to get there, but be strong. It was a highlight of my visit last spring -- the real thing -- and the audience was respectful.

Also, if you have access to a car, hit some of the restaurants outside the Quarter, like the classic and wonderful neighborhood joint Franky & Johnnie's, off Tchoupitoulas Street. Boiled crawfish and peanut butter pie -- mmm.

Anyone else have nighttime tips for Alex? -- KC

Washington, D.C.: Perfect place to get engaged: Hanging off a cliff over the blue water in Thailand after a all-day rock climb. My now-husband did it right.

The Flight Crew: Lovely, says Gary. We like that one...

Please help!: Travel gurus: My husband and I have to travel to Tampa over Memorial Day weekend (leaving Fri. pm, returning Monday pm). We want to leave from National or Dulles, and we would very much prefer a nonstop flight (I know, picky). After checking the usual web sites (airlines, Sidestep, Travelocity) for the past few weeks, the best fare we've found is $303 each roundtrip. Are we doomed to pay this high fare b/c of the holiday weeekend? Does your crystal ball foresee any sales, or should we bite the bullet and buy now before it gets even more expensive? Thanks!!

The Flight Crew: Holidays are always tricky. Have you tried the little guys, like JetBlue and Southwest? Also, Delta is starting up its low-cost carrier, Song, with service to Florida. Maybe they will have some cheap fares. If you can wait it out, then see if an esaver pops up the week before--but you never know, it is a gamble. Another option: Try Hotwire or Priceline, if you are flexible with times. If you answer none of the above, then the safest tack is to splurge on the costly flight.--andrea

Washington, D.C.: Flight Crew,

What is your dream recommendation? Here are your limits (okay, my limits) for two people, $2000, long weekend (four to five days), next couple of months. Looking for something semi-relaxing (not just laying around, but no bug spray and hiking boots).

Thanks. Looking forward to your (and my) dream trip!

The Flight Crew: With four days, just make sure you don't spend too much of your time traveling. There are endless possibilities. The one that leaps first to mind does so because I just wrote about it for Sunday's paper: the Riviera Maya, south of Cancun. You can relax, and there are great beaches, but it also has wonderful ruins from Mayan days, a bio preserve you could visit by boat, watersports galore. But you might be thinking of a plush resort in U.S., and that would be fine too. (Cindy)

Washington, D.C.: Forgive my ignorance, but I've noticed several times you've suggested contacting a ticket consolidator for travel such as Europe when you're looking at going to several countries or flying in to one and leaving from another. What is a consolidator, and what reputable ones have you used -- particularly with regard to Europe. Thanks!

The Flight Crew: You're smart to ask, WDC. Consolidators buy blocks of tickets from airlines, getting a discount by buying bulk, and then sell to the public at lower prices than the airlines usually do (and making money by doing a big volume). I can't recommend a specific one for Europe, but I will say that I've used a number of them (for Europe, Latin America and Africa) and have never been less than satisfied. I usually find mine, surprise, by scouring the tiny adds in our own section. --Steve

To Washington, D.C. going to Paris, Amsterdam, and London: Who says you have to do what the crowds do? In Paris, walk along the Seine, go to the cafes and parks, check out shopping, walk along the boulevards, etc. In london, walk along the Themes, go to the pubs, you get the idea. For the first time traveler there is so much to do in Europe, but many people try to squeeze in too much so they can't remember anything when they get back. Just sit back, relax, and enjoy, watch the people, and breath in the European air! Especially if there is a possibility of going back, you don't have to do everything at once. (I've been to Paris four times, and I've yet to go to the Louvre.)

The Flight Crew: Great way of approaching the question. Thanks. (Cindy)

Italy: Based on the experiences of my family, I'd definitely opt for more than just Rome, even for 6 days and even if staying just in Italy. They all raved about Florence and, to a somewhat lesser degree, Venice. I've been to Rome (in a discount hotel, with a room right above an alley full or loud mopeds all night long) and loved it, but there's so much else, even if not venturing to other countries.

The Flight Crew: One more vote for Rome plus. (Cindy)

Baltimore, Md.: Any recommendations for lodging in Lake Placid? We'd always prefer B&B or small inns over larger resorts, but really just want great atmosphere to welcome us home after a cold day of skiing! Thanks, crew and chatters!

The Flight Crew: Hi, Balmer. There are mountains of choices up there, but I stayed at the Bark Eater Inn, located maybe 20 minutes away from downtown, and LOVED it. It's spread out over several different buildings, one tucked in the woods, and the breakfast was great. The owner is a hoot--he'll pull a chair up and talk with you while you eat, but you'll actually be sorry when he leaves. Check out www.barkeater.com.

-john

Romantic Place: The boxwood gardens at Mount Vernon Unitarian Church, atop Mason Hill, at sunset!

The Flight Crew: Gary Lee says: sounds heavenly!

Washington, D.C.: Early 30s no-children couple in need of a brief four- or five-day vacation. Timeframe: late April/early May. We like stuff to do, things to see -- dislike just sitting around a pool. Not beach people, not really cruise people. Prefer urban to rural -- or at least a smallish town to explore/shop/eat/walk around in. Our preference is to go somewhere, stay in a centrally-located, decent hotel where we can park the car (or a train/fly-to destination where we don't need to rent a car) and walk/public transit where we want to go. We've done such trips to Manhattan, Charlottesville, San Antonio, San Diego, San Fran, seeking similar. Will fly, train, or drive (but not more than about a five-hour drive) Any suggestions?

The Flight Crew: If you don't mind it not being warm, how about Montreal, Quebec or Boston? My favorite of the three: Quebec City. (Cindy)

Arlington, Mass.: Future in-laws are taking us on an Alaskan cruise this summer. What's the latest from this scene? Has the cruise population gotten any younger in the last few years, and are both locals and tourists responding well to the increased inland excursions?

The Flight Crew: Stand by for link to our latest intelligence on Alaska cruising, Arlington.

washingtonpost.com: Alaska Cruising, (Post, Feb. 3, 2002)

The Flight Crew: Thanks, Kim.

To anybody without a passport: If you are on this site and don't have a passport, please make it your priority to get one. You don't know what you are missing! Plus, with all the last minute deals you can go anywhere you want in short notice. As a green card holder, I can't tell you how many times I missed the opportunity to go abroad beacuse I need a visa and it takes time. Once again: please get a passport, you don't know what you are missing!

The Flight Crew: Hard to argue with that.

Washington, D.C.: I've heard that some people have purchased Amtrak tickets through Ebay -- do you know how that works? For example, can one always purchase a ticket from D.C. to New York, or do you just have to keep checking back to see if there is something available? Are you purchasing directly from Amtrak or an individual? Thanks!

The Flight Crew: I did a Coming and Going item on that, but with just a few minutes left, I can't remember exactly what I said. However, I can tell you that you are buying from Amtrak--it's their attempt to reach out. And you can buy what they happen to post at the time, and not any place you want to go. (Cindy)

Austin, Tex.: Oh great gurus of travel I have an unusual question for you. I recently needed to travel on S.W. Airlines from BWI to Texas. I am oxygen dependent. They said they couldn't accomodate me. It caused me a lot of troubel to fly without it -- something I will never do again, and he pilot was put out that I was on the flight. My husband talked him out of landing the plane early and leaving us in another city and it got us to thinking. What are they rules of flying with oxygen? I have never seen this happen but surely disabled people fly and there must be some provisions for it. The pilot said FAA rules require you to fly with a doctor. Is this for real. I certainly don't want to endanger others or myself but I was going to Rockville to participate in a NIH study. I wont be able to since the travel was so tough. What about amtrak, cruises or a bus. Am I stuck at home or a car? I am only 46 and would love to travel more.

Thanks in advance for your thoughts and advice.

The Flight Crew: Sottili here: Federal regs prohibit people from bringing their own oxygen on board (explosion danger). Some airlines will provide oxygen while in flight, but you need to get this arranged before you fly. I don't know what Southwest's policy is on this, but they may not allow it. Go to www.portableoxygen.org for more info.

Silver Spring, Md.: Forgive the specificity, but here goes: My sister-in-law plans to take a friend on a week's vacation by car this fall, probably early October. The friend uses crutches, so mobility can be an issue. Friend hasn't travelled much, likes antique shopping and similar pursuits. Friend also expressed an interest in the rock & roll HOF in Cleveland, but they don't want to spend the whole week there. They don't need first-class accomodations, B&Bs or inns would be fine. Any suggestions for an itinerary?

The Flight Crew: Cleveland was never my first pick, but the Rock and Roll hall of fame is fun, and if that's what she wants: how about driving to Bedford, Pa. and stop for lunch and a look around town. There are more antique shops in Hollidaysburg/Altoona, Pa., then on to Pittsburg, with an overnight there, then Cleveland. (Cindy)

Oakton, Va.: I want to take my spouse to New York in late April to see a Broadway show, but I'm overwhelmed with all the different ways to go about booking it (i.e., package deals, bidding for hotel rooms, air v. rail v. driving, getting tickets). I bet you and your clicksters have done this kind of trip so many times that it may be boring, but can you give me some quick advice on how to get the best value? Thanks very much.

The Flight Crew: Oakton, I can recommend a couple of good Web sites, but here's a tip I heard at a tech meeting last week: The best deals on Broadway tickets can be found on eBay. Haven't tried this myself, but you might want to give it a go.

Most of us here tend to avoid packages and put trips together ourselves, so the first step would be to read reviews and choose your show. A couple of sites will help you make choices -- www.nytheatre.com, www.playbill.com, www.broadway.com and www.culturefinder.com. The New York City site, www.nycvisit.com, often has packages.

Or, when you're there, you could go to the TKTS office at Times Square or downtown and get half-price, same-day tix. Tip: Have a couple of choices ready.

Re flying or train -- just depends on your preference. I like the train and there's a good Amtrak deal on right now. But also can find good e-fares to NYC on Wednesdays. Driving is cheapest, but there's the parking dilemma. I've parked in a garage uptown for about $28/night -- cheaper than Times Square parking. -- KC

The Flight Crew: Your acting flight Captain, Gary Lee back with you to thank you for joining us. The questions were great. Apologies if we didn't get around to answering your query; we had more than usual this week. Please try us again next week. Thanks also for your suggestions on honeymoon venues. There were many many good ones. In the end, I was touched by the woman who has always wanted to be proposed to in the Rockies and is headed there for a trip this summer. If you e-mail me at leeg@washpost.com, I will make sure you get the prize.

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