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Got Plans?
With the Entertainment Guide Staff
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Thursday, Aug. 1, 2002; 1 p.m. EDT

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The Going Out Gurus: I apologize, the above information was sent through mistakenly. The Going Out Gurus will be with you at 1 p.m. EDT.

The Going Out Gurus: It's really hot. I'm about to just run around and start blasting fools with a Super Soaker, then I'll turn it on myself. That's a much nicer way to deal than those blow dart kids that were running around the city last month. What else can you do on days like this? Catch some flicks and make sure you post your reviews. We can get more creative than that though, let's rustle up some more tips from everyone on the best way to make the most of sticky, funky August in DC, and to take advantage of the depleted local population around this time. I'm Rhome and I'll be your host. I've got Maura, Alexa, Kate, Anne, Joe, Fritz & Jen on the squad today. Let us begin.

Saunderstown, R.I.: Hey Gurus!

I live in Rhode Island but used to live in Virginia for a long, long time. The thing is, I was never really old enough to enjoy the nightlife in D.C.! My friends and I are 19 -- old enough to be getting out but not allowed certain places cuz we aren't old enough to drink. Any suggestions for cool places on a Friday/Saturday? We have tried to get our act together and go clubbing, but usually can't find a place to get into. Thanks, and have a good day!

The Going Out Gurus: Hey, Little Rhody. Here is our big list of places for the under 21 crowd. If you want to go clubbing, I'd say VIP on Friday, Dream on Saturday, or Platinum either night. -- Fritz

Germantown, Md.: I am visiting the D.C. area and I want to see the new movie "Signs." However, I am looking for a great movie theater in which to watch it. I am a fan of old and larger theaters or just plan interesting theaters. Since I am not from around here a few suggestions would be appreciated!

The Going Out Gurus: What's up, Gtown? Jen here. Unfortunately, "Signs" isn't playing in many theaters that can be classified as old and large. (The Uptown's still got "Road to Perdition," otherwise that would have been my recommendation.) You can see it in D.C. at Union Station (the movie theater isn't so interesting, but the location is). If you want to stick near Germantown, you could try the brand new Hoyts that just opened out that way. (Stadium-seating, for my money, is always interesting). Or, if you seek an unusual theater and don't mind going for a long drive, hit the Muvico Egyptian 24. As its name suggests, there's a whole elaborate, Egyptian decor thing going on there that's pretty eye-catching.

Dupont Circle, Washington, D.C.: I've heard that the National Arboretum hosts some midnight event during the summer. Do you all know the details?

The Going Out Gurus: It's not a midnight event, Dupont, but a full moon hike and I'm afraid the August hike is full. Sign up fast for September's hike -- 5 miles and "mildly strenous." Check out details and sign up at the U.S. Arboretum website. - Maura

Washington, DC: Hello Gurus...Could you please recommend a few bars in the area where a single female (mid-20s) might feel comfotable going solo? Thank you!

The Going Out Gurus: Off the top of my head, Washington, I'd say Galaxy Hut, Aroma, Toka, Bar Rouge, the Reef, the Brickskeller, Asylum and Bedrock Billiards. I know if I missed anything, our readers (and my single female friends) will be quick to jump in and add to the list. -- Fritz

About Five Guys: First off I have to say daaaaaaaaamn, those are some good burger, fries and peanuts.

Does anyone know who won the burger eating contest last Friday night at the Rt. 7 location? When we left, I think the count was up to six.

The Going Out Gurus: Indeed. You are preaching to the choir, my friend. But sadly, no I (Alexa) do not know who won. Can anyone help us out with this?

Dupont Circle Mystery: Since you all are such going out gurus AND a few of you live in the Dupont area, I have a question for you. What restaurant/bar is going in to the space on the corner of Conn Ave. and Florida? It's a huge space and they are working like mad on the renovations. I would be truly excited for a new hot spot in Dupont! Maybe it will be the going out guru's new fabulous fall location? Also, is anything planned for Peter's Passions space? Thanks you guys -- you are the best!

The Going Out Gurus: Durn it, Dupont, Kate here. It's either tapas or sushi place, anyone remember the mention in Business? It had been pegged as a new Club Monaco but you're right, it will be a restaurant. I was hoping for a business that would be busy during the day that didn't require yet another liquor licence.

I pressed my nose up to the window of the former Peter's Passion but learned nothing more than the deeply regrettable name has been made more so by soaped-up windows, dusty floors and lonely chairs and tables.

Washington, D.C.: I will be going out with friends for my birthday this Friday. I am looking for a chill place where my friends can drop by and find me, but that is convenient if they are clubbing in Adams Morgan. I'm worried about choosing certain places because they can have long lines.

The Going Out Gurus: What about Rendezvous Lounge, Washington? I'd say there or the bar (or patio) at Soussi should fit the bill perfectly. I'm not sure if it's "chill" enough, but the refurbished Tom Tom has acres of space (upstairs) and no cover. I wouldn't bet on the Reef or Blue Room if I were you. -- Fritz

Washington, D.C.: Hey Gurus, love the chat. I'm wondering if you know of a place in the area (Metro or bus-accessible, preferably) where I can get some good soul food. I'm talkin' fried okra, squash casserole, mac & cheese, collard greens, sweet potato pie, etc. I moved up here from North Carolinia a year ago and I'm yearning for some Southern-style goodies. Thanks for your help!

The Going Out Gurus: Hurry! The condo's are coming! Run down to Webb's and get you some rib sammitches (not "sandwiches", I said sammitches, where they just throw a big pile of ribs in a container with two slices of wonder bread in saran wrap) before that whole block gets wiped clean of flavor and personality. Any more helpful suggestions for this North Cackalack transplant? - Rhome

Manassas, Va.: Hey, guys, if I'm taking my sweetie to the Birchmere for a show, is the in-house food OK, or should I plan a pre- or post-show dinner elsewhere in the area? And if yes, where? Thanks. Love the chat!

The Going Out Gurus: Hi Manassas, this is Joe and I've always been pretty happy with the food I've had at the Birchmere. The pulled pork sandwich is great. On the whole, the menus is mostly basic stuff, a little better than bar food. Does anyone out there want to offer alternatives?

Restaurant Week Fan: Gurus,

Love the chat. I was wondering if you had any suggestions for a Sunday Brunch venue on the Restaurant Week list. Do you know if any of the R.W. lunch menus are switched up on Sundays for brunch?

Also, I hit up 1789 last night for the Restaurant Week promo and it was wonderful. Their entire regular menu is fair-game for the promotion (as opposed to a special limited menu at many of the other restaurants).

Thanks!

R.W. Fan

The Going Out Gurus: Is the Bombay Club on that list? If so, it's a class spot for brunch. Otherwise, I (Alexa) might recommend somewhere like New Heights.

Silver Spring, Md.: Have any of the gurus been to the Jazz & Imax Cafe at the Natural History Museum? I went last Friday with high hopes for something different and the possibility of enjoying the mall area after hours. But I was disappointed by the lack of ambience and what I thought was overpriced food, considering that its cafeteria style. The music was initially so loud my companion and I couldn't carry on a conversation, and it was just too dark for my taste. I do hope the museum tries to improve on this idea and keep it around though, because I think that part of town could use some nightlife.

The Going Out Gurus: Well, Silver Spring, the IMAX Jazz Cafe event is in the cafeteria, but that's not as depressing as it sounds. A lot of people really enjoy these evenings. Sorry it wasn't your thing. If you're game for staying in that part of town, I'd try Art Nights or Jazz in the Sculpture Garden. Good luck. - Maura

Arlington, Va.: How do you pronounce mojito? What exactly is in the drink?

The Going Out Gurus: "Moe-HEE-Toe"

Arlington, Va.: My boyfriend and I are headed to Williamsburg for the weekend -- it was sort of a default plan if we couldn't find a nice place to stay at the beach (which we couldn't, as we didn't try and make a resveration till yesterday) and we're not really sure what to do while we're there. Any suggestions? And, any suggestions for nice, upscale places to eat that might be vegetarian friendly?

The Going Out Gurus: It's a hot time of year to go to Williamsburg, but I (Jen) am sure you'll have a good time. As a former resident of the 'burg, I'll start by suggesting the obvious: You can always hit Busch Gardens or, better yet if it's hot, Water Country USA. I think admission to Water Country might be less expensive, too. (You can also tour of the Anheuser-Busch factory nearby.) If you can brave the heat, spend an afternoon on Duke of Gloucester Street, going in and out of the shops, having lunch at The Cheese Shop and maybe touring the Governor's Palace. And there's always shopping at the outlets or The Pottery. In other words, there's tons to do. As far as restaurants, I don't know what to suggest that's vegetarian friendly, but I strongly recommend The Trellis. It's expensive, but, in my opinion, the nicest restaurant in Williamsburg. And I'm pretty sure it offers at least one vegetarian option on its menu. Hope this helps!

Alexandria, Va.: Hey GOG's,

I wanted to thank you for your suggestion a couple of chats ago about Salsa/Meranguie lessons at Habana Village. My wife and I went last week and had a blast (while I scored mega-brownie points). One question though, are their any other bars/dance halls (non-Arthur Murray) that give these type of dancing lessons that are either less crowded or at least in bigger locations (my wife and I were getting run into by other dancers all night). For $10 a person, I expected more (at least a bigger place).

The Going Out Gurus: Hey, Alexandria. I think the small space at Habana Vilalge is part of the fun, although it can be tough when you're a beginner and you don't know how to get out of the way of the more experienced dancers. (That's really one of the first things they should teach you in dance class.) Anyway, I'd say the Wednesday night dances/classes at Zanzibar and eCiti have larger dance floors, as does Chelsea's at the weekends. Zanzibar is my favorite, and Chelsea's isn't bad. I haven't been to eCiti's salsa night yet, though I hear good things from a friend in the salsa community. -- Fritz

Arlington, VA.: Instead of the Birchmere go across the street to RT's. Geat food and desserts.

The Going Out Gurus: OK, there's a tip. Thanks.

Washington DC: After living here for the past three years, it is my last weekend in DC. I have done the touristy stuff, but if you had your last weekend here what would you do? I already have the resturants picked out so it would be just a diversion from packing.
Thanks

The Going Out Gurus: Hi D.C., sorry to see you go. You might find solace at the Phillips Collection. Starting Tuesday they're packing up part of their permanent collection so this is the last weekend when you can visit their signature painting, Renoir's "The Boating Party." I don't know if you have plans tonight, but you could say goodbye to the treasures at the Sackler/Freer, Hirshorn, and National Museum of African Art. It's Art Night on the Mall. If you've got the energy, a night of dancing at Habana Village is tops, isn't it.

I understand that you've already picked you last suppers but I do hope you'll be eating either a massive dog from Ben's or a half-dozen crabs at the Quarter Deck. Don't forget to write, Kate

Your Hatted Chatter: Re: The full moon hike

It's awesome! My husband and I really enjoyed it. Don't forget to wear bug repellent or maybe clothes that cover your arms and legs (but it's been so hot that it might be unbearable). They recommend flashlights but the moon is really very bright, so we didn't need ours. The experience was very memorable. Some of the spots in the Arboretum are so beautiful in the moonlight, especially the columns.

The Going Out Gurus: I think I need to try that myself! *scribbles dutifully on Guru to-do list* - Rhome

Reston, Va.: Hey Gurus!

My Mom and a friend (who has never been here) are coming into town tonight. Tomorrow we're hopping the Tourmobile and seeing the sites, and Saturday we're doing a little outlet mall shopping. Two questions:

1. Where would be a good place to eat lunch near or on the Tourmobile route?
2. On Sunday, wanted to see other NOVA tourist attractions -- is Mt. Vernon worth the trip, and what are some other good ideas?

Thanks so much for your help!

The Going Out Gurus: Reston, the best I (Alexa) can do is give you this list and this list -- of places to eat on or about the Mall. As for Mount Vernon, it's a bit twee. But I always enjoy the vegetable garden and certainly those old-style beasts -- oxen, asses, boars. Or do I just mean sheep and turkeys. Anyway, it's been a while since I was there not under the influence of Virginia vino, so I could just mean horses.

Bethesda, Md. : Are there any D.C. clubs which spin alternative music?? I'm not talking about concerts venues like 9:30, but places which spin hard rock instead of trance or hiphop.

The Going Out Gurus: The last place I heard hard rock on the dance floor, Bethesda, was Tom Tom, and it was Guns N' Roses and more old metal. Not very promising. If you go hang out at Asylum, you'll hear your fair share of punk, metal and harDCore on the jukebox. (The only one I know with Minor Threat! Oh, the irony...) -- Fritz

Bethesda, MD: 17-year-old brother coming to visit me next week (August 5-11) - I don't have to entertain him during the week, just the weekend. suggestions? I obviously want him to think I am a cool, fun older sister.

The Going Out Gurus: Hi, Bethesda. This is Anne, and I bet you can't miss with an afternoon trip to the Spy Museum, followed by a night at ESPNzone -- be prepared for long waits at both places, though. If he's a tennis fan, you could score him tickets to see Agassi at the Legg Mason Tennis Classic, which starts the weekend that he'll be in town. For nightlife options, check Fritz's story on where to go if you're under 21. Some of our readers have raved about the Jazz Cafe at the National Museum of Natural History, where you can hear jazz and eat in the atrium before viewing one or two IMAX movies. Just don't tell your bro that he still qualifies for the (cheaper) youth admission.

Washington, D.C.: Hi Going Out Gurus,

What's the best way to get a date? I haven't had one in my 27 years! I feel like the guy in that P. Diddy song, "I need a girl!"

The Going Out Gurus: Hello DC, this is Joe and all I can say is welcome to the club. Anyone have suggestions for all of the not-so-proud members of the dateless-in-DC society?

Chill places in Adams Morgan: You might also try Adams Mill. We went there a few weeks ago for a friend's birthday -- had a great time and it is easy for people to meet there.

The Going Out Gurus: Good idea. But the last few times I've been in on weekends, it was packedtothegills with people on softball and kickball teams, and you could hardly get a Leinie's, let alone fit 15 people or so (I'm guessing at the number of people, I know). During the week, though, I concur. -- Fritz

Re: Movies at Union Station: What are you guys smoking? I wouldn't recommend seeing a movie there to my worst enemy. People talk throughout movies, cell phones go off all the time, and management is NEVER responsive to complaints. I stopped going there back in 1996 and from what my friends tell me, it hasn't gotten any better.

The Going Out Gurus: It is kind of rugged in there.

Re: Birchmere Dinner: Try Del Ray for dinner. Taqueria Poblano is the closest to California Mexican I can find- definitely worth a trip. Or you can head over to the Majestic Lounge for drinks after since the shows are early.

The Going Out Gurus: More good ideas. Thanks for them.

About soul fud, no skrimps: 1. Where did the term cackalackie come from?

2. Has anyone tried Flavors Soul Food on Columbia Pike between Carlin Springs Road and Route 7?

The Going Out Gurus: 1. That one's just in the long lexicon of slang. Any etymologists reading this chat now?

2. I haven't. What about the rest of you all?

-Rhome

Vienna, VA.: Hi Gurus! I wrote you a letter earlier in the week but I'm not sure if I emailed it to the right people -- I was wondering if you knew of a fun restaurant to bring four teenage girls and four adults after a show at the Kennedy Center on a Sunday night? Thanks a lot -- sorry if you already got this!

The Going Out Gurus: If I (Alexa) were you, Vienna, I'd enjoy the juxtaposition of buttoned-up Kennedy Center and unbuttoned barbecue. What about getting messed up at Old Glory afterwards?

Capitol Hill, Washington, D.C., re: Getting a Date: How about you start with asking girls out? And not in one of those creepy, "let me grind all up on you in a club, try to stick my tongue down your throat, and ask for your number: all in five minutes" ways!

The Going Out Gurus: Hmm, so that's what we've been doing wrong.

Petworth, Washington, D.C.: Hi Gurus!

So, last weekend, the DH and I went to Visions to see "Late Marriage." Good movie, but (trying to avoid spoilers here), frustrating ending.

But, that's not what I really want to talk about. I want to talk about Visions. So, when they opened I was happy. I mean, I really miss the big screen that the Embassy had, but a new place for art film, especially after the loss of the Key, the Biograph, the Foundry, and now the Janus, well, I was happy to see them go in. And the food/bar/snacks concept made me happy too.

But every time I go in there, I just get more frustrated. The lines are not well managed. The outside box office opens and closes randomly. The bar doesn't open until late, so you can't go in at 4, buy tix, and then sit at the bar while waiting for your 5 p.m. movie. The staff are not particuarly friendly, and are prone toward herding people, rather than serving people. And the popcorn was burnt.

Have I just hit them on a couple of bad days recently, or do other people share this experience? I really want to like the place. I love the concept. (although I wish the ticket prices were a bit better) I love the old films rather than ads before the movies. And I really love the movies. I just find the place itself frustrating.

What can be done?

The Going Out Gurus: Hi Pet., Honestly, Pet. I don't feel your frustration. I too would be interested to hear from others.

I like Visions, and go at least once every two weeks. I'll give you the herding mentality: the two lines ('corn and tickets) can often blend with the ticket-holder lane, but I figure that's the price you pay to see a first-run foreign film. I think the ticket prices, particularly for this independent, are reasonable. But I'm happy to share a secret: Did you know that for now (probably not for all time) all seats on Monday nights are only $6.50? And that pitchers of draft start at $8? Even if you can't sit at the bar from 4-5, you can hang out in the lounge, or if it's cool enough, outside. I'm not sure much can be done, except hope that another indie theater opens. A little competition couldn't hurt.

For the dateless dud: I'd stop using those cheap pick up lines you keep rolling out, and the Aqua Velva doesn't help.

The Going Out Gurus: But Old Spice is nice.

Silver Spring, Md.: A couple of friends and I are going to meet today after work for happy hour. Could you recommend someplace hip and happening on Wisconsin Avenue in Maryland?

The Going Out Gurus: Silver Spring, I might verge off Wisconsin just a bit and stop into Jaleo, Black's or South Beach. Worth an extra block or two I think. - Maura

Dupont Circle, Washington, D.C.: Review: Went to Soussi last Friday evening with all the lovely weather and really liked the place. They've done a lot of work and it looks really nice. The service is spotty (bartender served my up Manhattan warm -- ?), but the couple of apps we got were delish, and you can't beat (1) the location and (2) the covered patio.

The Going Out Gurus: Yeah, Fritz thinks it has legs too.

For North Carolina Transplant: Old Glory has fried okra -- and for sauce for the BBQ ribs or pulled pork you can choose (Memphis, Lexington, North Carolina, SW Texas and Kansas City).

The Going Out Gurus: Have at, NC. Personally, I think their 70-plus bourbons is a stronger recommendation. -- Kate

Crystal City, Va.: Good Thursday afternoon Gurus!

I'm making birthday plans (for myself!) and have a question about one of my favorite going-out spots. I hear Thursday nights at Andalu is Ladies Night. What exactly does that mean for females? No cover? Discounted cover? Drink specials? By the way, does anyone else remember the days of no cover for ladies ever with a tear in their eye?

The Going Out Gurus: I answered this one here a while back but I can't verify the no cover thing for ladies myself. Fritz went there on Thursday though and had to cough up loot at the door while the young lady accompanying him skated free. - Rhome

Washington, D.C.: Good afternoon, Gurus. I was wondering where a gay guy and straight girl could go out dancing and both be able to scope out guys. Preferably Metro-accessible, not overly expensive. Fun. Good music. You know, the works.

The Going Out Gurus: Dancing. Hmmm. Without wanting to speculate on every clubgoer's sexuality, men of both persuasions are known to frequent the Black Cat, Metro Cafe, Dream and the VIP Club. (Let's not turn this into a discussion about men on the down-low, though.)

Re: Best Way to Get a Date: Uhh, have you tried, y'know, actually TALKING to girls and asking them if they'd like to hang out some time?

If you've never had a date in 27 years, are you sure you've really been trying?

The Going Out Gurus: There you go dateless. Talking seems to work for some people.

Arlington, Va.: I miss the chocolate cakes from Brenner's Bakery at the corner of Glebe and Columbia Pike (it closed down early this year). They were the best chocolate-on-chocolate cakes around, and they were CHEAP (this is important) to boot. Any recommendations on a possible replacement?

The Going Out Gurus: Can Heidelberg help you?

Bars for the single gal: Nanny O'Briens is great, and you never feel weird about going alone.

The Going Out Gurus: Ta very much.

Jonzin' for onion rings: Yo yo yo,

Gurus, I've got a hankering for some onion rings. I'm talkin sweet onions, flavorful batter, not greasy. Good dipping sauce or if they are that good, none at all.

Any good bars you'd suggest that might serve such good fare?

The Going Out Gurus: We think Cafe Deluxe could set you up.

Washington, D.C.: I'm helping to organize a bachelorette party next month with about a dozen ladies. We want to kick things off with something fun (along the lines of a hot air balloon ride, but cheaper). Maybe a stretch limo ride around town, if there's one that has a couple of sunroofs? Any other ideas?

The Going Out Gurus: If you go with the limo idea (which sounds fun to me), you may want to have a look at this story. If she's adventurous, maybe you can take her skydiving. If she wants to do something sophisticated, perhaps she might like an afternoon trip to a nearby winery before the evening's festivities. Or if she's got a bit of kid left in her, you could: rent a moonbounce; play the games you used to play at kids' birthday parties (Pin the Tail on the Donkey, musical chairs, etc.); go roller-skating; or take her to Chuck E. Cheese. As you can see, I'm a proponent of starting her off with childlike fun before the drinks start flowing. Good luck. - Jen

For dateless: Do you have any -friends- who are women? If not, make some. Eventually ask one of them out.

The Going Out Gurus: It's just so simple isn't it?

Silver Spring, MD.: Thanks for the alternate suggestions on Mall-area evening outings. I have a soul food tip. Flavors in Falls Church. The food is great. They've got all the standards. I had the ribs when I went and had enough left over for a second good meal.

The Going Out Gurus: All my lovers of grits and mac & cheese with the toasty crust on the top, what say ye to Silver Spring?

Arlington, VA.: Driving around in my Ferrari 360 spyder and I get dates galore. Didn't have the same luck in Mercedes SL600. So buy youreslf a Ferrari and you will score.

The Going Out Gurus: You probably have wrap-arounds and rolled up sleeves on your blazer too, you slick mack you.

Vienna, Va. -- Kennedy Center: Thanks for the suggestion, but it's a birthday party, so is there any place a little more formal yet still fun?

The Going Out Gurus: Vienna, yes of course. Here are some more suggestions for that neck of the woods -- Clyde's, Neyla, the courtyard at Tahoga. All a bit pricier, mind you. But you did ask.

Glover Park, Washington, D.C.: Happy Thursday GoG's,

JOE -- do tell. How was Dave Matthews last night? I heard there was some horrible accident on the highway and traffic was stopped and no one was at the show when it started. Do tell about the show and the parking nightmare.

The Going Out Gurus: Hello GP. Unfortunately, or maybe I should say fortunately, I can't tell you about the Dave Matthew's show or the traffic. Maura just told me a friend of hers waited for 2 hours in traffic at the show. I can tell you that Exene Cervenka put on a great show at the Velvet Lounge last night and the traffic on U Street wasn't bad at all.

Arlington, VA.: Rocklands has great onion rings. Or if you're real bad off try Popeye's.

The Going Out Gurus: Word! Popeye's!

Washington, D.C.: OK gurus, I have a few weeks off, and I'm looking for fun things I can do alone during the day. I'm will be checking out all the Smithsonian has to offer, but any other fun ideas? I'm looking for some good off-the-beaten-path type of stuff. Thanks!

The Going Out Gurus: Hi, DC -- Anne here. The best part about freetime in the daytime is that most places should be less crowded. In addition to the Smithsonian -- where you might want to investigate classes or seminars offered by the Smithsonian Associates -- you should also check the National Gallery of Art and the Library of Congress. The National Archives exhibition hall is closed, but the Pennsylvania Avenue research side of the building is open, where the Archives hosts at least one speaker a week this month, when the theme is the history of the U.S. Air Force. For example, on Aug. 7, you can learn what it was like to be a translator between American pilots and Cambodian Army field commanders during the Vietnam War. All the events are free, and most are at noon. Alternately, you could go swimming, be the first one in for happy hour or find other ways to soak up summer.

Something different for a Thursday: Hey GoGs,

Thinking about swinging by the Hirshhorn this evening after work for the later hours and jazz. Have any of you been before? Worth the trip down there?

THANKS!

The Going Out Gurus: SDFAT, Art Night is absolutely worth a visit. There's Latin jazz at the Hirshhorn and Ghaniaian music at African Art tonight along with part of the Hong Kong film festival at the Freer. I say beat the heat inside the museums with a couple of summer's brightest shows -- Open City: Street Photography at the Hirshhorn and the Adventures of Hamza at the Sackler. - Maura

For the Hatted Chatter/Full Moon Hiker: Would this event still be nice in October? Are the trees still full then? What month did you go?

The Going Out Gurus: I want to know too.

Soul Food: I haven't been to Florida Avenue Grill in a few years, but I really liked their soul food when I went-collards, sweet potatoes, okra -- by the way, I'm from South Carolina, so I know the real deal! I've heard good things about Flavors Soul Food in Falls Church, but I haven't been there yet.

The Going Out Gurus: *smacks head*. I'm about to have my Native Washingtonian pass revoked for forgetting about Florida Avenue Grill. It's a shame too 'cuz Marion Barry had stamped it. - Rhome

Adams Morgan, Washington, DC: I highly recommend the Street Photography exhibit at the Hirshorn-- awesome.
Also, went to the Spy Museum-- very well done, but super-crowded (went on a Monday). I'd wait until the novelty has worn off before going, unless you like being shoved and herded around.

The Going Out Gurus: Thanks for the tips, AM. I enjoyed the Open City exhibition as well. Upon reflection, I think I enjoyed it a little more and plan to revisit soon. The Spy Museum is great fun, but super crowded these days. Has anyone tried going during weekday evening hours? They're open until 8 p.m. Otherwise, us locals may see it best if we wait a bit. - Maura

Downtown Washington, D.C.: Happy August Gurus! Was wondering if you had any recommendations for drinks at Reef? And, I know this has been asked a million times before, but what time is good to arrive -- week vs. weekend? Thanks so much!

The Going Out Gurus: Hey, Downtown. Here's what I usually order at the Reef: Brian's "Nestle's Quick" shooter, which tastes like Strawberry Quick, the Shipwreck, fruity with lots of rum, and the Belgian Sunrise, Brian's trademark beer drink. It's similar to a black-and-tan but with raspberry and white Belgian beers. Delicious. If you arrive 6-7 on a weekend, you should be fine. Maybe even a little later, now that the roof lets them double the capacity. -- Fritz

NE-ERD: That's me. Okay, here's the deal. I've been 21 for almost six months now and haven't been into a bar. I'm way shy about everything, especially when it's not stated in stone "seat yourself or wait to be seated." Much more comfortable with the latter. Don't know if I could bring myself to grab a random seat at a bar -- what's the protocol for that? Also, what does one order? How does one order? When do you pay? I know I sound like a first grader but these are questions I'm too embarrassed to ask non-anonymously. Plus, do you recommend somewhere I can for a reasonably cheap drink in the Arlington area, given my character? HELP! I know there are others out there like me, constrained to a life of watching "Friends" on a Thursday night with their cats. Thank you.

The Going Out Gurus: Kate and Fritz here, each holding a hand. Kate says, "No time to be shy, Nerd. Sit down and have something short and simple. Gin and tonic, with bitters, please." Fritz, far more pragmatic, says (think: rapid fire delivery, kind but firm) "Do you know what you'd like to order, if you could work up the courage?" "Do you even know what kind of alcohol you like?"

These days your "Friend" Rachel might order something pink that ends in 'tini. "The answer is," continues Fritz, "if you don't yet know what you like, order something simple." So, like I said, don't be shy, take a seat at the bar (any empty one will do, especially around Clarendon and Courthouse, it's friendly) and have a g 'n' t.

Now, Fritz is saavy enough to put you in the hands of good bartender. He suggests Brian at the Reef (Adams Morgan), Ben at Galaxy Hut (just beer, but a wide assortment on Wilson Blvd. in Arlington), Reed at Toka (downtown D.C.), and his favorite Krishna at Aroma.

As for cheap drinks in Arlington, Jay's on 10th Street has an astroturf porch and reasonable happy hour specials. Witlow's has daily drink specials too. Cheers

Your Hatted Chatter: Re: Finding a Date

I know you probably don't want to plug the Washingtonian (competition, right), but since they also had an article about Eric Brace in their August edition, I thought you might not mind as much. Another article in that issue was called "Extreme Dating" and it had some interesting ideas for meeting other singles through area organizations, like Learning Escapes, Single Volunteers of DC, DC Young Professionals, etc. I don't have the article in front of me or I'd share more.

The Going Out Gurus: Yes, good ideas. It's nice to know Washingtonian reads our transcripts.

Dupont Circle, Washington, D.C.: Gurus, my plans for the evening have been cancelled.

An evening alone sounds grand, but where would you recommend this cash-impaired girl go after work to read her book and have a little yummy drinky? And maybe some cheap yummy eaties?

The Going Out Gurus: Toka, for the $5 drink/food menu. The cocktails are delicious, and the food is excellent. Mostly small plates, but perfect for the afternoon. -- Fritz

Movies at Union Station by way of Logan Circle: Oh come on, Union Station isn't that bad! Sure some people talk during some of the movies, and the customer service is as grouchy as anywhere else, but I'm sick of people exaggerating the "ruggedness" of D.C. locales just because they're not located in far Northwest or patronized by people other than Northern Virginia suburbanites.

The Going Out Gurus: Case closed, your honor!

Salsa: Lucky Bar also has lessons and dancing on Monday nights. I'm fuzzy on what time the lessons start, I think they start at 7:30 or 8:00. What's more it's free. While the teacher tends to repeat some of the steps he teaches each week, that can be helpful to reinforce them.
As far as people running into you, sorry 'bout that. I find that in Salsa places there are always a few "experts" who think the floor is theirs and theirs alone. Earlier on in the evening, or at close to closing time, these places do tend to be less full. Enjoy!

The Going Out Gurus: Monday salsa at Lucky Bar is a staple on the scene indeed. You'll always know the current haps if you sign up for Jeri's Salsanews though. - Rhome

Silver Spring, Md.: Jen, entertainment goddess, I need advice!

I plan on seeing "Lovely and Amazing" or "Full Frontal" sometime after work next week with some old buddies at the Landmark Bethesda Row cinema. Where should we eat beforehand? We don't want to spend too much cash, about $10-$15 apiece is good. One of us is under 21.

Any suggestions? I know you'll come through for me!

The Going Out Gurus: I am many things, Silver Spring, but goddess ain't one of them. But thanks for the high praise.

First of all, do not go after work on a Friday. Try to go mid-week when there are (at least, there should be) fewer people in the area near Landmark. The Bethesda and Woodmont Ave. intersection has turned into a mega-zoo of late, so make sure you get there early. You could try Delhi Dhaba, right across the street from the theater - good Indian food and should fit into your budget. Same goes for Austin Grill, Tara Thai and Parker's, all of which are in that same vicinity and aren't (in my memory) too expensive. And, last but not least, there's always Chicken Out. It's inexpensive, tasty and, if you order properly, even healthy. Enjoy your food and film.

Trellis: We honeymooned in Williamsburg and The trellis is incredible. And, Im a veggie, they have tons of veggie options, and a veggie special every day, which was the best meal I have ever had! It beat Inn at Little Washington. Thay also have a Web site, can serach in google.

The Going Out Gurus: Honeyfood for honeymooners.

For Dateless: I'd go out with him! poor fella. You guys are cutting up on him. He just needs some lovin.

The Going Out Gurus: Alright, brave-y. Send me your email and if Dateless does too, I (kate.gibbs@washingtonpost.com) will exchange-roo for you.

Spy Museum: I went to the Spy Museum at a Monday at 5:30--no line at all! Yay!

The Going Out Gurus: The secret's out.

Old Town, Alexandria, Va.: Hi Guys,

I've really been enjoying the Screen on the Green movies on the Mall this summer. Any idea if NIH will continue with their version in late August/September? I know that security around there has changed, and I was wondering if you or any of the other lurkers have some good intel. Thanks!

The Going Out Gurus: My intel tells me that yes, the NIH Film Fest will happen this month. But, for the reasons you stated, it will be held at Strathmore Hall instead. Here's the line-up, lurkers. - Jen

Dateless Dude: Was that you that asked me "Come here often" last night in Old Town? Try a little creativity. And a free drink never hurts.

The Going Out Gurus: Ouch! Free drink rule swings both ways, no?

U Street, Washington, DC: RE: soul food

Florida Avenue Grill is closed for the summer, so you'll have to get your soul food fix elsewheres.

Georgia Brown's does good collards and low country food, but it ain't cheap and forget about getting a table on Sunday afternoon.

The best mac and cheese used to be at Jinny French's, which has since closed. The Diner in Adams Morgan makes a version with gruyere which is surprisingly. Burnt cheese rocks!

The Going Out Gurus: One of the homies ordered the gruyere mac & cheese on a lark last week and was pleasantly surprised. Kudos for the Diner! Although it's risky to temper so blatantly with such a solid standard. Georgia Brown's is an worthy option, I just left it out initially because of the Cash Flow Factor. - Rhome

Your Hatted Chatter: Re: Full Moon hike in Fall

We went in September last year, and it was still warm. I honestly think the cooler weather in October might be nice. More comfortable and fewer bugs, too. We've signed up for that month this year so I can tell you more later!

The Going Out Gurus: Yeah! You're on a roll today, O Hatted One.

Ex-Williamsburg resident: Although it's not vegetarian friendly (unless hush puppies count), no trip to Williamsburg is complete without a stop at Pierce's Pit Bar-B-Que. Hands down the best Carolina-style barbeque anywhere.

The Going Out Gurus: Yes, Pierce's is a classic for barbecue lovers. But the veggie person will have to fill up on hush puppies and fries.

Washington, D.C.: Re: Restaurants in Williamsburg. Actually the trelis is not even close to being the best in Williamsburg. The Dinning room at Ford's Colony is AMAZING. I bet with some notice they woudl do something wonderfull(albeit expensive) for vegetaians, and La Yaca, I think that's how it is spelled it very nice French and I bet if asked they woudl do nice veggie things. The Trellis is really overrated.

The Going Out Gurus: And yet another opinion on The Trellis. Thanks for writing.

L'Enfant Plaza, Washington, D.C.: Help!

I have to organize an intern get-together at a bar to be held in two Thursdays. Can you tell me a place that is downtown (Metro accessible) that admits under 21s? They don't plan on drinking, but want to be included.

Thanks so much for the help!

The Going Out Gurus: On a Thursday? What time? I'm guessing it should be inexpensive. If you did it earlier in the week, it might be easier. My advice would be to go somewhere with food, so they can have something to snack on -- that's also a pretext for entering the bar. If you go too late, they'll be carding at the door, but you can always try a place like Mackey's Irish Pub, Fado, or even Thunder Grill. Just be sure to call ahead and ask. -- Fritz

First Fridays?: Is tomorrow first fridays in Dupont? Can ya gimme the inside scoop?

The Going Out Gurus: Yup, tomorrow is First Friday. Galleries extend their hours, usually from 6-8pm, and may even provide you with a vittle or glass of vino. As for the art, check out the Academy 2002 show at Conner Contemporary and Coney Island photographs at Kathleen Ewing.

Washington, D.C.: Rhome- Are you single? Straight? If so, what do I have to do to get a date?

The Going Out Gurus: "Can you pay my biiiills? Can you pay my telephone biiills? Can you pay my automo-biiills?" It's all about the loot in the 2K2, better ask somebody bay-baaay!!!!

About my onion ring hankerin': I just asked my summer interns (who used to be employed by the taste Popeye's) what they thought about the onjun rings there.

"Ehhhhh, they are OK."

Rhome, what do you have to say abaout this blasphemous statement?

I'll try Rocklands, Dafe Deluxe and the Popeye's!

Word.

The Going Out Gurus: Youngins are confused these days, don't have no respect for great established institutions.

Petworth, Washington, D.C.: Oh, c'mon. The person wasn't calling Union Station rugged because of where it is. It's rugged because it is full of people who think they are in their living rooms, and so talk back to the screen, talk to each other, talk on their cell phones, let their kids run up and down the aisles -- you get the idea. And customer service there is much worse than anywhere else. I hate the place, and I am hardly biased against D.C. (let the record of GOG transcripts show, your honor!)

The Going Out Gurus: Pet's got a point.

For single female bar-goer:: My friends and I often start our evenings out at Mackey's (19th & L) or Carpool (Ballston metro) because they're comfy places to hang out at the bar alone, whether you're meeting folks out or not. Friendly bartenders and decent food are a plus, and there are usually plenty of men if you feel like meeting someone.

For the single dateless guy: have you tried match.com, speed dating or single volunteers? A friend of mine met his current girlfriend through match.com, and she's really cool. (and i know plenty of people who have gotten dates through volunteer work.)

The Going Out Gurus: Everybody's going to be hooked up after this chat.

Montgomery County, Md.: I can't believe I haven't been to any of the Sonheim shows this summer, but the tickets are so pricey. Do you know if they ever show up at the half-price ticket booth? I also remember seeing something about the half-price ticket vendor going online. Was I dreaming or can we check them out online now? Thanks!

The Going Out Gurus: Yes, Ticketplace does sell tickets online. You can always check the line-up of what's on sale on the entertainment guide's theater page, too. As for Sondheim tickets, they have not shown up at Ticketplace, with the exception of some stray tickets for the Barbara Cooke and Mandy Patinkin performances. The festival has done so well, I don't think the Kennedy Center needs to go the half-price route. - Jen

Woodley Park, Washington, D.C.: I just wanted to let everyone know that tonight there are two (count'em) Cocktail Charities events: at Guantanamera for AYUDA and at Annapolis Grill for LadyfestDC. Annapolis Grill is on 20th between L & M. So if you were planning on going to Dupont or K Street, you should come over and let your tips go to charity!

The Going Out Gurus: Okay. Everyone go support these two worthwhile charities and tip your bartenders well.

Dupont Circle, Washington, D.C.: Hi Gurus,
Rather than sit and swelter in this heat, I want to get out and do something active this weekend. I was thinking of biking the Mt. Vernon trail. Do you know where I could rent a bike in the area, and if the trail is a feasible day-trip?

The Going Out Gurus: So you want to pedal and swelter instead? I (Anne) say be a camel and take lots and lots of water. From Dupont, you can easily get on the Mount Vernon Trail, and go as far as suits your energy level. Just take P Street to Rock Creek Parkway, then go over Memorial Bridge to get on the trail. For renting, try Big Wheel Bikes in Georgetown or Better Bikes, who will actually deliver your bike. Be careful what you ask for: I've rented bikes from Fletchers Boathouse before -- and they can be old-fashioned and tough to maneuver on a long ride.

Georgia Browns: No No No! Speaking as another transplant from North Cack, Georgia Brown's is not the answer. For one, the veggies are bland, for the "mainstream" visitors I guess, and you could get better fried chicken at KFC or Popeyes (or even a good Giant). Its low country SC stuff is good, but that certainly won't make anyone from the Old North State wanna 'Raise Up'.

The Going Out Gurus: And you definitely can't tear your shirt off and twist it around your head like a helicopter in Georgia Brown's.

Maryland: Come on guys... I feel bad for the 'Nerd' - if he/she really needs the basics then you should say:
-- Generally if you sit at the bar you will order a drink and pay at that time. If you intend to stay longer, ask to start a tab and fork over your credit card.
-- Tip the bar tender at the time that you pay (even if that is after each drink)
-- If you sit at a table, you will usually have a waitperson - you will then pay as you leave and must tip them.
-- The taps behind the bar are a good giveaway to what's on tap - but you can always ask. If you decide you're more of a liquor person, come up with a basic standard drink: gin/vodka tonic, rum and coke, etc...

Just dive right in!

The Going Out Gurus: Feel the love, Nerd.

Your Hatted Chatter: Re: Movies at Union Station

OK, I agree with Logan Circle about the DC bashing, but...Union Station is my neighborhood movie theater and it isn't the best experience. It's not the worst theater in the area, but cell phones will ring, babies will cry, kids will run up and down the aisle, people will laugh during serious movies, throw popcorn and shine those laser pens. It doesn't have the greatest ambience. And it is not very clean either. Although, it all used to be a lot worse, so maybe it'll continue to get better.

On the other hand, the food court right there is handy, the prices are still low, and it is convenient.

Just my thoughts.

The Going Out Gurus: Dirty, cruddy. That's what I meant by 'rugged' because I've seen people act up and annoy others in some of the finest theaters around town. Wack behavior isn't confined to zip code. - Rhome

Washington, D.C.: I have a male friend visiting this weekend he is gay I'm not. Any clubs/bars we'll both be comfortable/happy (we're both guys)?

The Going Out Gurus: Sure, Washington. The first thing we'd say is to try the Fox and Hounds on 17th Street. If you want to move on to the strip after a few drinks, it's all right there. If you go to Foodbar, for example, no one will bite your head off for being straight. I am, and I had a good time there. (I did get grabbed at one bar, though, but it's not like I'll never go to a bar on 17th Street again.)

You'll find both gay and straight people at many places around D.C.: Aroma, the Black Cat, Chi-Cha, Kingpin, Capitol Lounge, Eighteenth Street Lounge, Gazuza ... the list goes on. Just relax and enjoy yourselves. -- Fritz

Flavors: I've been there once, and the made-to-order fried chicken is pretty good (takes about 18 minutes). The mac and cheese was just OK. No crunchy stuff on top, and it was a little cold for my taste. The sweet potatoes were great, but there were also loaded with brown sugar, and if you don't have a sweet tooth, it might be too much.

The Going Out Gurus: My mamma makes the best candied yams, melts the marshmellows on... ummmm, good. No crunchy crust on the mac? No dice. Can't front on the crunch. Here's where I need some help to jog my memory though. I used to work on Vermont Ave and there was this church on either L or M where the church ladies used to get BUSY! We would roll over there on Friday afternoons for the good fish fry and have to be rolled up out of there. The cornbread was LIKE THAT. Can anybody help me remember the name of the church and confirm whether the church ladies still sell lunch? - Rhome

Fair Oaks, VA: Hey Gurus! I want to take my friend from out of town to either VIP or Dream. Problem is, what I've heard of these places is that they are built for 4,000, but only 400 show up. Any of you know a good 21-and-up club that is large, gets packed, and plays techno/house instead of regurgitated top-40? My friend is used to the Amphitheater in Tampa, so I'm trying to represent here!

The Going Out Gurus: Who've you been talking to, Fair Oaks? People complain to me that those places -- especially Dream -- are TOO crowded. Go to Dream. Lots of house and electronic dance music. I was there two Saturdays ago and could barely walk through the second floor to get to the stairs (at like 12:30 or so). Platinum gets full on Saturdays as well. VIP is full on Fridays, not too crowded, but that will give you some room. And they play the music you want. -- Fritz

The Going Out Gurus: For the record on the Union Station movie theater: Our "Signs" poster was looking for an interesting location. And Union Station - not the theater necessarily, but the place itself - is an interesting location. The only other choices in D.C. to see that film are the Dupont Circle and Wisconsin Ave. theaters, neither of which are fantastic options. But truth be told, none of these theaters would win any beauty pageants. I think the District gets the shaft on decent movie theaters, but hopefully that will change when new cineplexes open. There, I've said my peace. - Jen

More Matchmaking: Why not hook up DC gay guy and straight girl with DC straight guy and visiting gay guy??

The Going Out Gurus: Not a bad idea. Wanna double date? Send us e-mails and we'll give it a shot.

Washington, D.C.: For the Williamsburg bound, dinner at the Williamsburg Inn -- the Regency Dining Room -- is also very good.

The Going Out Gurus: I (Jen) have always wanted to stay (and eat) at the Inn. Good call.

solo at the bar: OK, maybe I'm just too self-conscious but I've never considered going to a bar solo. But, this summer I find myself alone a lot as friends are tied up at work, travelling, or away at interships. I am intrigued with the idea. Do women really hang out at bars solo? Are there better times to go?

The Going Out Gurus: Well, SatB, I obviously am not a women, but my female friends do it, and I usually ask them for details so I can give advice like this. They recommend going early in the week and going after happy hour if you want to avoid being bothered. Find a place you like and strike up a conversation/rapport with the bartender. They'll be your new best friends. -- Fritz

Second on Georgia Brown's: Not to mention the "bland" fried chicken is damn near $20 -- that'll buy you a lot of two-pieces.

The Going Out Gurus: Don't forget my biscuit.

Trellis v. Inn: The Trellis is nice and all, I'm not knocking the food in the least, the savory cheesecakes are fab. HOWEVER, the previous poster must have been delirious in love if they think the Trellis beats the Inn ANY DAY.

The Going Out Gurus: As I (Jen) just mentioned, I've never eaten at the Inn. So maybe it does beat The Trellis. But in the end, my Williamsburg love will always be reserved for Paul's Deli. I've said it before, and I'll say it again: Nothing beats a Hot Holly.

Glover Park, Washington, D.C.: Hey GOG's,

A group of us (10+) are getting together for happy hour today in honor of my birthday (Yay). Where can we go in Dupont Circle other than Cafe Citron, Big Hunt and Lucky Bar that will be able to accomodate us?

We're coming from 15th and K if that helps.

Thanks.

The Going Out Gurus: Buffalo Billiards? Fox and Hounds? The Brickskeller? (That gets my vote, btw.) That's just for starters... -- Fritz

Union Station again: I have a right to bash movies there. I LIVE in the city, right on Capitol Hill. I'll still venture out to the burbs or to Northwest though for my viewing pleasure, thank you very much.

The Going Out Gurus: All right, let's just call a cease fire on the Union Station thing. This is America. And that means we're all entitled to life, liberty and the right to bash any business establishment as we see fit. Case closed.

Sterling, VA: I have a best friend bartender at Sweetwater Tavern in Sterling. IT WORKS!!!!

The Going Out Gurus: Yes!

For Jen: See, that's why we need to fight for the restoration of the Tivoli as a movie theater. What a dream that would be!

And while we're at it, can someone come up with the cash to buy the Ontario back from People's, and turn it back into the palace that it used to be?

The Going Out Gurus: Hey, at least somebody's fighting for the Avalon. I think that's the best we can hope for at this point. - J

Last second planning for tomorrow night: Anywhere comparable to Rouge, Topaz or the Reef that takes reservations?

The Going Out Gurus: At the risk of sounding like a broken record, Toka, although they don't get as busy. Maybe Citron? -- Fritz

Olney, MD.: I'm going to see "The Laramie Project" in Olney this weekend. Any thoughts on restauarnts out that way?

The Going Out Gurus: Your best bet, in terms of proximity and coziness, is The Olney Ale House. Lots of the theater folk dine there, too. - Jen

Washington, D.C.: Has anyone been to Pines of Sicily for dinner, then dancing at Chelsea's once the restaurant closed? I read up on it in the guide, but want feedback from people. I'm trying to decide whether to take my honey there.

Thanks!

The Going Out Gurus: I've been, although it was when Eric was writing his report, so I'm somewhat biased. It's a fun, laidback place with live music on the weekends. I wasn't around for the dance lessons (sorry), but Peligro is a dang fine orchestra and the crowd was friendly. -- Fritz

Hot holly: Oh god. That makes me want to go back.
All I can say is Go Tribe.

The Going Out Gurus: They're feeling you out there, Jen.

Cube Deluxe, K Street: Re:Conn Ave. and Florida restaurant...

There was an article about it in a recent issue of the Dupont Current/Northwest Current. I forget what it said...but it's got all the detailz.

The Going Out Gurus: There you go.

Alexandria: Yay for women feeling okay to go out alone. I do it often and love it. I always end up meeting people. The worst thing that's ever happened to me is that I've felt a little uncomfortable, finished my drink and left. Plus, we (women) get the added bonus of being able to say ANYTHING to a guy to start a conversation. It's amazing. Try this one -- "Hey."

The Going Out Gurus: Thanks, Alexandria. We (guys and girls) wholeheartedly agree that we love to see single women enjoying themselves.

The Going Out Gurus: Whew! That's way too much activity for a lazy August afternoon, folks trying to wear me out up in here today. It was fun though, see you all next week. Anybody looking to hang out around Dupont this evening should check me out at Five, I'll be spinning for the happy hour and talent showcase starting at 6. And we're out!

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